Girls, read this book. “It’s Just a Fucking Date” by Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola. I’ll be writing a full review when I’m done but they are based and speak TRUTH

Liz_Lemondrop

November 11, 2019

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Title	Girls, read this book. “It’s Just a Fucking Date” by Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola. I’ll be writing a full review when I’m done but they are based and speak TRUTH
Author	Liz_Lemondrop
Upvotes	121
Comments	25
Date	November 11, 2019 10:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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The real talk, too is so refreshing.

“The point of this book is to redefine how you date if you’re looking for a serious relationship. Rare is the couple that turns the hookup into a fifty-year marriage. Common is the couple that turns the hookup into a six-month relationship that fizzles out because one of them realizes they never really wanted to be in the relationship in the first place. It is the most common outcome of the relationship started from anything other than absolute intention—one realizes that they were never really into it. Let’s be honest about these non-dating relationships … women generally think that if they’re agreeable to less than dating and they ride it out that it will eventually lead to something more serious, whereas many guys think that if women are agreeable to less than dating that it’s the shortcut to having sex without the responsibility of a relationship. See the difference? So when these relationships, built on an imbalanced foundation of hope for her and sex for him, fall apart it’s generally the hopeful party that it really sucks for”

Damn.

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