Questioning the way you look - Commenting negatively on your clothes, make up, weight, age, because they feel insecure or overly secure about their own looks
My last bf commented on how I look good without make up and added, "at least to him". I acted as if this wasn't insulting and smiled. The next day I told him how cute his dad bod is and how I only dated super buff guys before.
Don't take shit from men. Give it back to them with a smile on your face.
Questioning your intelligence and emotional stability - Also logical thinking, education and knowledge of certain issues, because they feel threatened by smarter and more educated women.
When a man implies you're not rational/intelligent enough, remind him of some stupid, irrational, emotional thing they did or said. When one of my exes implied women are the emotional gender, I reminded him of the time we nearly broke up and he started crying, thinking I will leave him.
Questioning your abilities - For example, men frequently questiioning driving skills of women despite being much more deadly on roads. This is one of my favourite statistics. Ratio of men vs women involved in deadly road accidents is 9:1. Men are wreckless drivers who project their own lack of driving skills onto women.
Questioning your sex life and relationships - judging you for sexual past, because they doubt their own sexual prowess and penis size. It's best to keep them in mist regarding this. If you speak of your exes, never speak in things your bf would be interested to know (too graphic and too sexual topics such as partner count and penis sizes). You don't want to put those images in their head unless you really want to hurt them. Men only ask them because they're silly sometimes and like hurting themselves, but lucky for them, you're smart and you know how to deal with this better:
Speak only about behaviours of your exes that you would or wouldn't like to see in your current bf - "oh my ex really knew how to listen to me. I love men who are good listeners" and "my ex was a dear, but such a slob. His dishes were always dirty, I hated his apartment". This will guide your bf in the right direction.
Questioning your world/political views - This depends on the intention. If a man is really interested in let's say, your feminism, and wants to know why you're a feminist, tell him about it. If he's obviously being negative about it, give him a specific reason for why you're a feminist. My reason is "because women didn't try to gang rape me when I was 13, men did" which usually shuts them the hell up.
If he continues to push mgtow/right wing/anti female bullshit, I keep my smile on, block him on my phone and never see him again.
Left wing men aren't necessarily great either since they're defenders of porn and prostitution, but they're a better choice for dating and far more flexible. Studies show conservative men are, on average, less intelligent and more aggressive. Since I want only the best genetic material, I avoid right wing men and choose left wingers, but this really depends on your personal choices and every man can be a story for himself.
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