Trying to spread the good word.

ScrappleSandwiches · 2020-03-05T20:24:10+00:00

So depressing to see someone wracking their brains for any explanation besides “he just doesn’t wanna.” Maybe he’s just irresponsible? Is that a better reason? Because that seems equally bad.

throwaway23004345 · 2020-03-05T20:42:36+00:00

Like how many clues does a person need that he doesn't want to be with you.

glazedhamster · 2020-03-05T20:52:13+00:00

we've been dating for 5 years

22F

Does math

So she was 17 and he was 20 when they started "dating"? Eww.

Girl, get the hint. Either you are Chick #6294 or he's just not that into you. Sounds to me like a little bit of both.

ScrappleSandwiches · 2020-03-05T20:48:57+00:00

Chortled at "I am the one to take initiative"

I feel like this question is a case of "difference without distinction"

He either doesn't want to or he's incapable. Either way, it's not happening and it's not going to.

honeybeeroll · 2020-03-05T22:08:44+00:00

I feel like most people seeking relationship advice are people who have been with a clusterfuck of a (often abusive) man child for years, or these SUPER young people who have been in relationships WAY too long with only one person and have no idea they're being treated bad.

Like honey you're 22 and YOU take all the initiative? You're not (usually) supposed to date someone you met when you were 17 this long for reasons!

2020-03-06T00:28:18+00:00

Let's play the game "he's ignoring me. On purpose. How do I get through to him"

Sweet summer child

He doesn't care

JoyJonesIII · 2020-03-05T21:43:25+00:00

Boyfriend of 5 years is not looking for an apartment to live together with me and I can't see the reason why

Girlllll, can it be any more obvious?

B_Project · 2020-03-06T04:17:59+00:00

“We see each other during weekends only” is he married???

Title	Trying to spread the good word.
Author	yafavoriteobserver
Upvotes	107
Comments	15
Date	March 5, 2020 7:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fe0pbo/trying_to_spread_the_good_word/
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