I’ve always had interest in fashion since young. When i was living in london, i met my rich chinese friend and she decided to try tinder as fun and to my surprise none of the guys she had matched and convo suggested netflix and chill nor they was rude. It was eye opening in someways. If you see her in real life, she seems very very high maintenance as well as beautiful as she’s very slim and tall. Dressed up in designer clothes( she is from rich family) and always give off hard to approach vibes. She didnt go on any of the dates though. Her photos are her in graduation pics with perfect hair, her with friends and art gallery. Most guys or 100% guys who messaged sent her proper seemingly hvm message, no “hey”, or coffee, walk around dates. Guys compartmentalize according to the level? Of the girl they message to.

Then i realized becoming high maintenance and giving off that vibe is really important. Predators and most LVM inherently and instinctively is aware that they cant fuck with this kind of women. Because it challenges them and their self esteem. Guys are very aware of social hierarchy unlike women so they know that its hard to manipulate women who is above them, they sometimes to prey on when a women seems give off low self esteem of naive vibes.
High maintenance includes not giving off your emotions and yourself to the guy and being prepared to leave at any moment.

I know FDS doesn’t encourage to focus on solely on improving looks but it is important. So you dont attract the wrong guys, at least on initial interaction stage.