Would I be a hypocrite to want to wait for sex

acceptable_runx · 2020-06-24T00:23:22+00:00

Your body your rules don’t fall into the oh I slept with my ex so now I have to sleep with this guy mindset.

SilkCyborg · 2020-06-23T23:43:54+00:00

No you’re not a hypocrite. You’ll be ok.

DTW_Tumbleweed · 2020-06-24T00:09:43+00:00

No. You wait as long as you want to. Trust yourself. Don't beat yourself up over this. The last relationship was a learning experience. Take some time to reflect on what you learned about yourself, about what you want next, and stay true to yourself.

Relationships don't always turn out the way we want them to. Shoot, sometimes they RARELY do, regardless of how long we wait. Take your time to figure this out, you will know when you are ready again.

terragutti · 2020-06-24T04:59:17+00:00

No of course not. The important thing over the n count is the reason why you slept with that person. N count is a factor people look at because usually,if youve slept with an astronomically large amount of people, that just means you arent valuing yourself or sex in the right way. I tend to think n counts matter for both men and women. Its not about the number,for me anyway, but the reason you slept with these people.

JadedByEntropy · 2020-06-24T08:11:28+00:00

You made your ex wait, so it's not like you've slept with half the city and now want to settle down and withhold sex until marriage. You have every right to make the next men wait.

Natuasi · 2020-06-24T17:08:46+00:00

Know your value and don’t settle for less than that.

CalmWalk · 2020-06-24T17:11:23+00:00

Wait as long as you want. You are young. I would have left after the first month. But my view on protected sex is much more casual.

AbleWarning · 2020-06-24T00:04:41+00:00

Try playing the drums

WoodpeckerBaby · 2020-06-24T16:31:05+00:00

If he’s on board with it, sure. You should be honest and communicate clearly of your intention though.

Most men see sex as a basic biological need, which it is. Depriving of that and being stuck in a relationship is quite unfortunate. Don’t be surprised that he would have sex with someone else or watch porn behind your back. Women can’t stop bleeding every month, and guys cannot not have a release every few days.

Title	Would I be a hypocrite to want to wait for sex
Author	throwaway321934
Upvotes	29
Comments	33
Date	June 23, 2020 10:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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