I'm good with women, but how do I increase my status around men?

44361066 · 2018-12-07T22:44:18+00:00

I’m 24. Back in highschool and college I didn’t get accepted into social circles because of lack of social intelligence. I created my own world, business and hobbies, then succeeded in them, met very successful men because I created value. Being around them you get to internalize their mentality, you feel successful and confident.

I realized that many of the men I wanted validation from were losers to begin with, and as they age, them being losers will only get more amplified.

If you’re not a natural alpha only hard work can get you up the hierarchy, then you have the chance to internalize it even more.

icecruzader · 2018-12-08T01:38:03+00:00

Add value to people, quid pro quo. Be a leader of men and show them how good you are with women. Don't expect everyone to like you

jakeroviks · 2018-12-07T23:34:43+00:00

If you're in your mid 20s I'm assuming you're not very far along in your career. Not a bad thing, just an observation. My suggestion is to talk less and listen more. Focus on perfecting your craft and growing in your field.

You should seek out a mentor. I'm going to make another assumption so bear with me. I'm assuming there's someone "in charge" but there's also someone at your job who may not hold a supervisory or management position but knows his trade inside and out. Befriend this person, ask questions and most importantly listen to his professional advice.

Keep your personal life out of the workplace, take as many professional development courses as you can and strive to excel professionally. Men respect men who deliver and produce results. Be that man.

Best of luck to you.

kellykebab · 2018-12-08T05:59:08+00:00

The Red Pill in general needs more material on dealing with other men. I don't know why that issue is such a blind spot for this community.

jakeroviks · 2018-12-07T23:49:05+00:00

Simple, be better than them and be humble about it. Have honor and always lift those around you above yourself.

Go read how to make friends and influence people.

leredditarmy5000 · 2018-12-08T00:09:59+00:00

There could be many reasons for this.. are they all much older? are you feminine? Do you offer nothing to the group?

Divine_Instrument · 2018-12-08T02:36:20+00:00

What traits would a guy who you would view as high status have? Get those.

Rollo_Mayhem3 · 2018-12-08T03:40:27+00:00

A made friends with three men, one of which we will text when we are out on the town, giving updates on clubs etc.

It started when i said something about one guys rock t shirt, then girls walked by and kickdd it with them pulling a girl into the group. They liked me style and bought me shots. We established our mutual goal to pull tail. The rest is history.

Granite_Pill · 2018-12-08T08:25:28+00:00

Mid 20's guy

Newsflash, kid: nobody owes you respect until you earn it. You haven't said what industry or type of work you do, or what level of education/experience you have, so it will be hard to give you proper or more specific advice. Just realize you're not entitled to any respect. I don't mean this in a harsh way either.

If you're doing everything right and you're getting the respect you deserve, go elsewhere. Nothing wrong with that.

Title	I'm good with women, but how do I increase my status around men?
Author	jakeroviks
Upvotes	10
Comments	17
Date	December 7, 2018 10:29 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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