I have a hooker i go to once a month just so i dont get too stressed from my daily life. Is this correct coping?

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2018-12-23T14:32:33+00:00

IF you didn't give a shit, you wouldn't be posting it. SO something is telling you, it's not quit sitting right.

Whilst there is nothing inherently wrong with seeing a hooker...how does it make you feel about yourself? I don't mean in a guilt/shameful way...but if you're not interacting with women regularly, or plating anyone, do you think that will set you back?

You don't want to end up older, and realise you short-cut your way to no skill with women...and either you then have to catch up...or keep relying on hookers.

FixYourselfFirst · 2018-12-23T13:36:36+00:00

There is a real risk of you becoming addicted to hookers, setting you back long term.

atticusfinch1973 · 2018-12-23T13:38:29+00:00

There's nothing wrong with hiring someone to take care of your needs if that is what keeps you on track. The flaw would be if you can't afford it or do something stupid like catching feelings. Otherwise fill your boots.

kcxvi · 2018-12-23T15:01:20+00:00

A man can do whatever he wants; but why pay for something u can get for free. To each

RockNRollMachine33 · 2018-12-23T13:31:55+00:00

Trp is amoral. Who are we to tell you what's right or wrong? You do you. A simple transaction in which sex is involved. If that's what you want and you feel it brings an upside to your life, do it. Otherwise don't. Simple as that.

throwitdownman · 2018-12-23T17:40:24+00:00

Some people can be hypocritical as fuck. Apparently this is the measuring stick - people hiring escorts are ‘betas’, while athletes and celebrities, who have high SMV (as they’re rich, and their job is to be in shape) are ‘chads’. News flash - they hire prostitutes, strippers, more than anyone. Tell me the verdict - are they alphas because women throw themselves at them? Or are they betas?

Stop getting tied down to labels. If you have spare cash, and want to have an exotic Russian drain your balls, do it.

There is no downside to any of this as long as you are in control. Do the things you want. In other words, live in your own frame.

DocPBJ007 · 2018-12-23T21:40:09+00:00

how much does it cost

iskandph · 2018-12-23T22:24:49+00:00

If you're not using it as a buffer then it's all good bro

studentsensei · 2018-12-24T02:15:09+00:00

Nothing is wrong with it as long as you aren't using her as a crutch.

TheTrenTrannyTrain · 2018-12-24T02:24:44+00:00

All pussies will cost you, whether it's time or money. As long as you don't use hookers as a crutch and not improve yourself, you're good.

redvelvet_oreo · 2018-12-24T04:00:02+00:00

Its cool to have a hired gun as long as its just for your own pleasure and dosent become an addiction. There are alot of benefits to it as some have mentioned already. I would say the biggest benefit is time and I would go a step further and say access to some women you might not ever have access to normally if you have the cash.

If it becomes an addiction and you find your self wasting more time then necessary then you fucked up.

You should still be gaming and picking up plates. If your at a time in life that your so busy with school or work and just dont have time to game its understandable but just make sure to make an effort to get back into the game once your meet your goals.

salamchik · 2018-12-23T13:52:16+00:00

Why not ? But make sure you balance it with real life girls. In other words, don’t rely on hookers only.

2comment · 2018-12-23T14:06:24+00:00

Since when is TRP against this? Just don't ltr her.

Lambdal7 · 2018-12-23T17:27:33+00:00

Yes you’re doing it wrong.

You should use that pent up energy to approach 100 hot girls in a month instead. Also, do nofap if you need some motivation

scarmine34 · 2018-12-23T15:14:26+00:00

No. Don’t have sex with hookers- especially the same hooker.

Just go get laid.

HltvFanBoy · 2018-12-23T14:13:23+00:00

Even a blue-pill can get sex.

So should you.

Title	I have a hooker i go to once a month just so i dont get too stressed from my daily life. Is this correct coping?
Author	Scrummy671
Upvotes	13
Comments	33
Date	December 23, 2018 1:24 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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