Thing is...as most of us can attest, this isn’t even an unpopular opinion. Dude straight up says in the post making women feel loved feels like work. Yikes.

2020-08-05T20:24:02+00:00

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Kimpractical · 2020-08-05T20:22:15+00:00

I also don’t enjoy the romance genre only because I’m more of a sci-fi/fantasy person and the romance stuff just isn’t as interesting to me. I still want to be romanced though. Does he not think that other people can not like it for different reasons? That’s the problem with these scrotes, their view on everything is so self-centered.

NeedsHolyWater · 2020-08-05T20:36:01+00:00

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eveninghope · 2020-08-05T21:14:24+00:00

I'm thankful that in 2020 the concept of emotional labor has been articulated to women. Men have had this mentality that "love and caring" = work and we're just getting woken up to it. #staywoke

plembb · 2020-08-05T20:22:41+00:00

Says a man who has never actually been in love with a woman

gursky0 · 2020-08-05T20:57:48+00:00

Nothing worth having comes easily.

RiteWriter · 2020-08-05T21:29:20+00:00

It’s called emotional labor for women because men don’t naturally express themselves. If they did, it would not be work.

virginiagirl27 · 2020-08-05T21:36:02+00:00

Unpopular opinion is a scrote and lvm dominated sub. The amount of time I’ve argued for equality and been attacked and told to go to other subs is ridiculous.

Yeah you have to actually show effort in a serious relationship for fucks sake. No wonder so many lvm just want a fwb or hookup now a days.

This user needs to snip snip his nuts so he doesn’t breed his lv views

heythere360 · 2020-08-05T21:42:49+00:00

Men can’t stand the fact that they have a natural instinct to go above and beyond when they’re in love or even just infatuated with a woman.

Now just doing the bare minimum is simping.

finalbosskitten · 2020-08-05T21:54:11+00:00

I mean, the genre parallel'd as the masculine equal to romance (if not porn) is action. Action is full of action (sorry). And work. And people doing crazy things, going to places, doing insane fight moves, concocting dastardly plans all the time. Isn't like these characters are actually in-universe actually enjoying themselves that much anyway. Lots of young boys and men end up fantasizing about exciting lives...even if it might not have violence, just some replacement for that agency and importance and doing amazing shit. The pinaccle fantasy of a ton of men involves fucking around, being rich, having power, and doing a ton of shit...but that isn't "work" to them because let's be honest; it's less that it's "upsetting", and more that they experience no joy at making their gf feel loved nor value it enough, so it's "work", and not some adventure or something that makes them feel genuinely happy. What kind of gets me is that we're not even talking FDS standards but probably the bare minimum; actually caring about who your gf is and shit. We hear "omg he's so amazing" stories and then she says what's the barest of minimums and not explicitly treating her like some object.

I'd feel like I'd be a cold lizard woman if I felt like once in a while showing my love to my man would be "work" t b h. I'd feel weird if he suddenly ceased feeling genuine joy at making me feel happy and loved too with his actions and gestures? Like, I don't get people.

Gambit12345 · 2020-08-05T21:37:30+00:00

I mean, if you’re in love with your gf/wife, wouldn’t you WANT to go above and beyond to see her happy? 🤔🤔🤔 like shouldn’t you have a partner that motivates you to outdo yourself? It’s like they get in relationships to be completely self serving just to have someone fill the void of gf (or whose void to fill pun intended). I think a man who won’t go out of his way for a woman truly doesn’t love her. I had a bf who was very romantic in many ways, even once coming to my side when I got nearly black out drunk in 2am from out of state to be with me for example. I bragged about him all the time and in turn it made me appreciative and treat him well. This shit ain’t rocket science!!

2020-08-05T21:26:19+00:00

Owning a house is work. Having a job is work. On occasion, friendships are work. It’s normal and healthy. Life isn’t effortless.

ilikeoreosandpussy12 · 2020-08-05T21:29:36+00:00

Shah Jahan built the Taj Mahal for the love of his life and these men have the audacity to complain about romance being too much work 🧐

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