Reminder that your boundaries are valid and you aren’t asking too much ✨🌺

AmazonArtemis · 2020-11-23T21:18:41+00:00

When I first started enforcing my boundaries, I lost a lot of “interest” from males I was talking to. Probably because they were never interested in ME but rather what I could do for them. lvm stock tends to hate boundary-setting.

Singular-cat-lady · 2020-11-24T00:59:25+00:00

Thanks for this :') I'm visiting some friends right now (all quarantined aggressively and tested negative beforehand) and the one I'm staying with I had been casually flirting with leading up to this week. We had discussed hooking up during this trip, but once I got here I honestly wasn't feeling it. He hasn't put pressure on me or anything but I can tell he's disappointed. I'm so used to immediately doing whatever I can to please men that it's a bit hard to sit through the awkwardness... But it's my own happiness at stake here so I know I shouldn't feel bad.

crapeescape · 2020-11-24T00:31:50+00:00

I have put up with a lot just to make them like me, and then when I’ve finally had enough and snap off, I’m “crazy”. I don’t even get to that point any more. Just block 🛑

dutchie19 · 2020-11-23T20:29:55+00:00

Damn

Mamma_Midnight · 2020-11-24T00:49:25+00:00

I needed to see that today. Thank you for the reminder.

Bacheegs · 2020-11-24T06:01:15+00:00

This is too true

softestbean · 2020-11-24T16:33:12+00:00

whelp, this was a slap in the face

Title	Reminder that your boundaries are valid and you aren’t asking too much ✨🌺
Author	Ok_Ad_67
Upvotes	1143
Comments	9
Date	November 23, 2020 8:22 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jzpmuz/reminder_that_your_boundaries_are_valid_and_you/
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