Porn sick, limp dick = damaged brain?

MadamLeFay · 2020-12-20T23:33:18+00:00

I have noticed there are two types of porn sick dudes:
1) The ones who stare so intensely, they scare the crap out of you
2) The ones who can't even make eye contact with a woman

Platipus6 · 2020-12-21T04:31:49+00:00

Yes. My porn addict exes were infuriatingly dull and slow-witted.

They couldn't make inferences, couldn't think further than two steps ahead, couldn't make complex plans with more than 1-2 steps or moving parts, couldn't follow a conversation, couldn't guess what the consequences of their actions would be, couldn't assess risks, couldn't read my face or guess how their behaviour would make me feel, or what the obvious result of pissing me off would be.

Studies have shown porn addiction makes men lose executive functioning and empathy.

I hope they enjoy their life, single on their couch again, with their hand down their pants like a toddler with a hand in their diaper.

onceuponasea · 2020-12-21T00:01:44+00:00

Ugh. I was in the grocery store and it’s so sad to say but almost every guy I walked passed I could tell they were porn watchers. What is it with guys and their lack of effort in what they wear? They all such lazy dressers.

2020-12-21T12:08:48+00:00

you can just tell honestly

AutoModerator · 2020-12-20T08:22:17+00:00

[1] - We Just Launched a Website: wwww.TheRealFemaleDatingStrategy.com. Click here for registration information. Please also join our Twitter and Instagram Pages for updates!
[2] - Please read the FDS Handbook and Wiki before commenting. Repeated comments demonstrating lack of basic sub knowledge will result in a temporary or permanent ban.
[3] - Please REPORT any comments that do not follow the sub rules. If you do not report it, the mods will not see it.
[4] - PLEASE REMOVE ALL PERSONAL IDENTIFIABLE INFORMATION from images (Name, Location, Job description, education, phone number, etc). Failure to remove ID info will result in a 1-2 day ban. Repeated failures will result in a permanent ban.
[5] - This sub is FEMALE ONLY. All comments from men will be removed and you will be banned. DO NOT REPLY TO MALE TROLLS!! Please DOWNVOTE and REPORT immediately.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

SarcasmSlide · 2020-12-21T15:45:32+00:00

Some examples of pornsick indicators I’ve come across in my own life that don’t require getting naked before you know:

He makes weird statements or conclusions about what other men are thinking about you.

I was talking with a male “friend” (spoiler alert: he was most definitely NOT my friend) about a mutual male acquaintance whom I dislike. I was explaining that he doesn’t speak to me with respect and acts passive aggressive. Out of nowhere he said, “He just wants to fuck you. It’s probably because of your complexion.” Ummm, what? I’m quite pale and Limp Dick Loser is Latino. He later admitted he loved pale white girl porn.

He doesn’t really have any hobbies and gives you vague answers about what he does with his time.

If he’s not at work and he’s not hanging out with you, can he show what he does with his time? And beware the guy who says he’s a gamer. If he is, he’s a loser anyway. But it makes a convenient excuse. The above-named guy later admitted he jerked off to extreme pornography for 4 hours a day, edging the whole time. He even watched and tugged at work. He never orgasmed with me, not once, in 15 years of our on/off situationship. If the guy has no hobbies, jerking off is his hobby.

The dead, 100-yard stare. The dark circles under the eyes. A perpetual lack of emotive expression. A smile that never touches the eyes. The sallow skin. Shoulders rounded and hunched over.

Coomers are basically Gollum with a smart phone.

They’re super quick to bring every conversational topic back to sex, even when there’s clearly no connection.

Their brains are cooked. Their limp noodle is making the choices.

They spend a ridiculous amount of time in the bathroom or “showering” and always with their phone.

Come on. You don’t need me for this.

They’ll text innuendos or outright filth. They’ll beg for nudes and tell you how sexy you are. But when they’re in your presence, they won’t make a move and don’t seem very excited.

They prefer jerking off to your pictures than actually being in your presence. Because they don’t see us as people anymore.

He constantly tells you how sexy you are yet he never seems aroused. You make out or heavy pet but he won’t get naked with you. He seems bashful or even defensive when you try to take things further.

Girl he knows his dick doesn’t work. He’s been this way long before he met you.

Flip side of the coin, he might be aggressively and/or clumsily constantly trying to push things further physically. If you tell him your boundaries he’ll pretend to accept them but always circle back to push them.

Because you’re not a person to him. You’re a living sex doll.

He’s a terrible kisser and/or has no confidence in the way he touches you. You may often feel like he’s not mentally present with you.

Because he’s not. Porn offers every kind of sex you can imagine but one thing it doesn’t is intimacy. Kissing. Considered foreplay. Tenderness. Genuine human passion. Mentally he goes to his favorite porn while fumbling with his current sex doll. And no matter what you say or do, he won’t adjust the way he kisses or touches to match your energy. He’s robotic and clinical.

Sometimes they’ll get bold and tell you they have “problems” in the bedroom. They’ll say it’s only with someone new and/or because you’re just so hot and he’s so nervous.

Girl, no. If he’s healthy and under the age of 50 he should be hard for his lovers. How did we as women accept the narrative that 25 year-old men naturally have erectile dysfunction? It’s fucking nonsense.

Ditto if he says previous relationships ended because of sexual incompatibility or a dead bedroom.

That’s scrote language for “she got tired of me jackhammering her mouth for 2 hours while semi-hard, only to go finish myself in the bathroom with my phone.” Check out /r/DeadBedrooms on any given day and find dozens of posts from porn widows. My example NVM above complained for many years about his dead bedroom. He told our friend group, like any good piece of shit does, that they hadn’t had sex in 3 years. He later admitted that she couldn’t take the sexual dysfunction anymore after years of begging him to change. He just started cheating on her instead. He also told me he was considering paying for sex because she doesn’t suck his dick anymore. He is 41 years old and has had sex with dozens of women over the years. He said he has never been able to cum from a blowjob, which is absurd. Out of those dozens of women, he constantly waxed poetic about the one girl he was able to cum with during sex. Of course, he phrased it as, “There was this one amazing girl who was able to make me cum.” Porn has taught them that we are here for them to masturbate into. If he can’t cum, it’s because we’re not good enough. Sex is something they do to you, not with you.

Edit: I forgot one! If he makes nasty comments or shows an attitude of disgust toward women who do porn/prostitute/strip 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Edit 2: If he asks about specific sex acts and whether you’ve done them.

Title	Porn sick, limp dick = damaged brain?
Author	Accomplished-Ad-6925
Upvotes	51
Comments	23
Date	December 20, 2020 8:22 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/kgqjfo/porn_sick_limp_dick_damaged_brain/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/porn-sick-limp-dick-damaged-brain.730717 https://theredarchive.com/post/730717

Comments