The girl my ex cheated on me with, answering all my questions 😭 She was an angel about it all!

weekend111 · 2021-01-24T10:55:08+00:00

I love when women look up for each other!

Pyllytar · 2021-01-24T09:56:20+00:00

This is awesome. When a man cheats, its natural instinct to some women to blame the side chick for taking their man, but I'd say, it is always 100% on the man. He's the one who's cheating, the side chick most likely doesn't even know the man was dating already.

Do not waste your energy in fighting fellow women, that's just what L/NVM wants and it's only benefiting their manipulative and misogynist goals. It is common war tactic to shatter the enemy's moral by dividing the homefront with made up propaganda.

"Divide and conquer"

clairemaffeis · 2021-01-24T14:13:41+00:00

Women have to stick together.

Men, meanwhile, are laughing with their buddies about how they cheated on their wives/girlfriends.

LadyGrimes · 2021-01-24T09:42:19+00:00

I love seeing things like this.

not_a_paper_pusher · 2021-01-24T15:33:08+00:00

I had a similar experience with a woman in 2012, she gave me the evidence I needed to divorce my husband after he cheated on me with her. I occasionally think of her and wish her well.

Last year, I was able to show similar kindness to the woman my ex husband went on to marry when she contacted me to ask questions about our relationship. He hadn’t told her he had been previously married and she was shocked to find out about me, he wouldn’t give her the answers she needed so she contacted me and I did.

2021-01-24T18:03:03+00:00

This is my Feminist Utopia! 😭

companyofwolves · 2021-01-24T19:02:29+00:00

I've had two exes who were cheaters, and one had a habit of cheating on me with other women in our social circles - these women knew he and I were a couple and had been for years, and still agreed to be the other party. I hated (and still do to this day) them as much as I hate him.

A more recent ex cheated with someone who legitimately knew nothing about me and is blameless in that regard, but even after finding out the full story, decided to stay with him and went into a full apologist tour for him, trying to minimize our relationship to make hers seem more "solid" and "real". So in the end, fuck her too, just for different reasons.

I am very disappointed that the cultural narrative around cheaters seems to be "well the other partner didn't make any promises/vows to you, so it's not their fault, just blame your cheating partner only!!!" That kind of behavior continues to reinforce Pickme culture and only empowers the scrotes to keep getting by with this stuff.

sassyheather · 2021-01-24T15:45:47+00:00

So different from the girl my ex cheated with multiple times, she knew I existed and met us at a bar, probably laughing at me for not knowing he had cheated with her...

CynicalSucculent · 2021-01-25T23:10:45+00:00

She's a sweetheart. The girl my ex cheated on me with is still dating him (she knew about us the whole time) and actively spreads rumors about me.

-pop-fizz-clink · 2021-01-24T22:54:08+00:00

I am so happy she responded. I did the opposite, and tried to reach out to the young lady I was cheated on with to let me know the types of messages he had been sending me (sexual).

I found her on FB, and he called me within three seconds of pressing send. Pretty sure he was logged into all her stuff. Her little icon didn't pop down to show she read it. Super unfortunate.

I'm cf, she was in the first few weeks of a pregnancy with him, and he cheated because "you don't want kids and I want to be a dad". Hope he's enjoying his miserable life - he can't even take care of a dog let alone a child and I'm sure she's tired of his shit. He moved her in a few months into their (after our🙃) relationship to "take care of her, because she's pregnant and pregnant women are special". Cool.

Title	The girl my ex cheated on me with, answering all my questions 😭 She was an angel about it all!
Author	Mme_Mae
Upvotes	290
Comments	16
Date	January 24, 2021 1:46 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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