Hey brothers, new here. Familiar with TRP and PUA from the last few years. I'll try to keep this semi-concise:

  • Dated a girl for a couple months. Took her virginity too. Didn't see a long term future with her (not sure I'll ever marry any girl, but we'll see) and treated her more like an exclusive fuckbuddy / semi-girlfriend. But in the moment we did tell each other we loved each other (and I definitely did feel that romantic love for her, and was fully romantically/sexually satisfied with her).
  • It bothered her that I never asked her to be my girlfriend, and eventually after a fight she broke up with me; she now recognizes it was an excuse to break up because she resented that I didn't treat her like a committed long-term partner / didn't satisfy her Disney relationship expectations
    • Evolutionarily this makes sense. Dual mating strategy, I satisfied the alpha-fucks part but only partially satisfied the provider-part. She wouldn't want to be tied down to a guy who wouldn't be there for her as a provider long-term. And according to her, a relationship is heading towards a possible future together e.g. marriage.
  • We reconnected a month after the breakup (i.e. last month) and we've been hanging out fairly regularly; still act couple-y in person (cuddles, affection, lots of sex), but she just sees me as a FWB. She's keeping her options open and even had a date planned for yesterday with a random guy from Bumble. She said she planned the date when she was feeling lonely the other day.
    • I'm also keeping my options open but only because she is. I don't really feel like dating other girls but I am gaming other girls casually and might have a couple dates this week myself.
  • If it were up to me, we'd just be in a normal relationship still and exclusive. Makes me kinda sad that she felt lonely the other day and booked a date, because to me we could just be a normal couple even though I have no idea if I'd be with her many years down the road. My romantic feelings for her are strong and growing slowly still, though.

So anyway, I'm wondering if MRP has any unique insights or advice that I haven't thought of yet. From what I can tell, the most common problems in MRP are to do with things like dead bedrooms - but I seem to have the opposite problem. I fuck her dominantly multiple times a day when we hang out and she really loves when I fuck her, and IMO I even have high RMV (smart, good career potential, workout often, reliable, etc), but she doesn't see me as a boyfriend anymore while I do see her as more of a girlfriend and would want us to be a couple, at least for now.

Cheers guys

Edit: some of you guys are toxic as fuck and seem to have serious anger issues (maybe projection because you hate the beta inside you and see me as beta or some shit?). Thanks to those who helped, I legit got some good responses here and will be reading more into MRP material now. And yes I lift lmao.

No need for more comments unless you actually have interesting things to say. If you're just gonna call me a faggot, maybe go sort your own life out first

Edit 2: LOOOOL okay ban me for using the word "faqqot" in the context of calling out OTHER people calling me that word here. You guys are ridiculous. In any case like I said in multiple places, some of these comments actually helped me figure things out, and I sparked an interesting discussion before the banhammer came down, so I don't really care you banned me, I'm happy I posted. Thanks again to those who legit helped. Lmfao.