I just wanted to take a minute to thank this community. I found this group a few months ago and just immediately absorbed the handbook, and loved the valuable lessons, laughs, and love you all share every single day.

After taking a second to breathe and take it all in, I got to work. I deleted my OLD profiles, blocked and deleted toxic people from my life, wrote out my boundaries and reflected on what I truly wanted for myself.

Internalizing the fact that I was perfectly whole and complete with myself, and if someone wants to come and try to pursue me, let them - but I'm walking away the second it is no longer enjoyable or valuable to me.

And oh my god, the way my life has turned around so quickly.

I excelled at my job and was given executive responsibility, transformed my room into a place that makes me genuinely happy and calm, started learning new things, created healthy new habits that I enjoy.

And now just over the weekend, I've been offered a dream opportunity doing really important work that aligns with my values and is really just a huge step in my life and career.

This is all to say that I genuinely believe that it's thanks to this group that I broke my unhealthy habits of Pickmeishissm that were constantly derailing me from achieving my own happiness and contentness.

TLDR: This group changed my life and I'm so thankful