Im not upset. My goal from the beginning was never to be his wife, it was and still is, to improve my finances through using femininity and controlling my emotions.
Im here because i need tips, strategies, plans to reach my goal faster & leave.
Please advise.
[–]Freja_Walther 13 points14 points15 points (7 children) | Copy Link
That's one filthy way to treat another person, like lying about a child is bad.
Using somebody for your personal gain like that is waaay worse.
[–]ihopemewingworks -2 points-1 points0 points (6 children) | Copy Link
I'm confused what was the personal gain? I genuinely don't know, not trying to be bitchy or anything 🙈
[–]Freja_Walther 7 points8 points9 points (5 children) | Copy Link
"My goal from the beginning was never to be his wife, it was and still is, to improve my finances through using femininity and controlling my emotions."
[–]ihopemewingworks 1 point2 points3 points (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I read it but didn't quite understand (English isn't my first language) does it mean using her femininity to get money from him? Also controlling my emotions don't understand how that's bad but maybe that's not the bad part
[–]Freja_Walther 1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah having a control your income and emotions are great, but it’s bad when you use another person to gain that.
[–]ihopemewingworks 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm sorry I'm confused? Are you saying yes to she's using him for money? I don't even know what controlling your emotions mean, or I know what it literally means but like anger emotions haha don't get it
[–]Fat_cunt27 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes she is using him for money
[–]ihopemewingworks 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I personally feel like how can a person be upset about what he did if she's using him purely for money. If she expects him to be good she also has to be good..
[–]Nandemodekiru 8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
This better not be you leaching off of him for his money. It’s horribly unclear what exactly your question is.
[–]IcarusKiki 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Girl just leave him alone if you just plan to use him
[–]deerprudehence 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
“My goal was never to be a wife” but I’m sure she was looking for commitment and safety as us women want from relationships. She needs to leave him and spend time reflecting on herself and her idea of what a relationship should be.
[–]JadedByEntropy 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Get your plan together
[–]pearlsandstilettosModerator | Pearl[M] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
No cross posting