Former me on OLD before FDS...

elainejay82 · 2020-11-21T09:10:56+00:00

I keep trying to tell ladies but I'm always vehemently opposed. Honestly, it's kind of creepy how much women champion for something that ultimately is rigged to hurt them.

Men are even more murky on OLD.

LittleWinn · 2020-11-21T13:21:01+00:00

I have actually never tried OLD and don’t think I will. Strikes me as a good way to get murdered. 🤷🏻‍♀️

warinmymind94 · 2020-11-21T14:34:21+00:00

This was me. I was getting smarter and knew the handful of guys I actually met up with were trash and the ones I continued to see just became worse and worse with time. Its important to understand if you are attracted to LVM and learn what makes some guys LVMs so you can dodge them. For me, I was wasting time on dating apps as my friends were too broke or busy to hangout as often and I wasn't fulfilled in my previous job before I moved. I needed more socialization and a boosted sense of self confidence. Better food, exercise, moving, finding a slightly better job, and treating myself a little bit plus being on FDS and making better friends led me to find the confidence and security to stop settling for low effort on OLD.

make sure you find out why you're settling for low effort if you are struggling

pinkfleurhappiness · 2020-11-21T23:56:36+00:00

My Mom actually tries to push me to use OLD again because she thinks guys there are shy and decent. Such a sweet summer child.

peleks · 2020-11-21T20:53:41+00:00

OLD is good for training establishing your boundaries, I've found. Yes, for the goal of meeting someone it is still 10/10 lose, but you get to see examples of LVM with education, careers, looks and/or other initially desirable traits and train your eye to see past those. Then again, it might not be safe to be on OLD before you have your eye trained...

Delishtise · 2020-11-21T05:36:14+00:00

😂

yggiwtmiih · 2020-11-21T15:10:48+00:00

The newest season sucks so bad. RIP Rick and Morty seasons 1-3.

Title	Former me on OLD before FDS...
Author	pinkfleurhappiness
Upvotes	325
Comments	20
Date	November 21, 2020 4:45 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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