Am I (18M) being naive when I say that Western women aren’t worthy of marriage and/or LTRs?

FirstName_LastName4 · 2021-03-04T13:14:04+00:00

Yes you are in a way.

It is obvious that a lot of women are fucked up by this feminised society, but you can always find high value women, but you have to be a high value man tho.

Also in a relationship you are the glass and women is the water, so if your glass has defects, water will spill through. Be a high value glass of the shape that you want, and women will fill that up

UEMcGill · 2021-03-04T15:32:59+00:00

First, let's have two definitions.

Marriage as a business definition, otherwise known as state-sanctioned marriage.

Marriage as an institution, otherwise known as a relationship with some form of ceremonial commitment.

Marriage Inc. (Or ltd. for my British friends) is an over-regulated business model. For an affluent, high earner looking to have a nuclear family I would not recommend it in today's common law countries.

Marriage as an institution? You do you. There are lots of ways to make this work without the Marriage Inc (ltd.) way of doing it. I'm married and have kids and it works for me. Would I do it the same knowing what I know now? No. But I don't live in the past.

This isn’t me being racist, but I just feel like women in this society have reached an unprecedented level of degeneracy, mostly due to the rise of radical feminism, social media, the MeeToo Movement etc

Don't think of this as a bug, it's a feature. Women are self-selecting for you. The trashy ones are openly weeding themselves out for you. It's always been hard to find high-value women, and that hasn't changed. The only thing that is different is the information you have. Go forth and profit knowing this.

Nighthawk_Black_ · 2021-03-04T13:58:43+00:00

No offense but you're 18 you don't know dick about nothing.

vancityboyo · 2021-03-04T17:19:45+00:00

The girls back home are donezo too bro

Jakeybaby125 · 2021-03-04T13:53:33+00:00

No. If you do, you're being incredibly foolish. Glad I've found someone my own age and nationality on here. What you need to know is that, as soon as you commit, sex will dry up instantly. Also know that you're fucked if you get divorced too. Women get custody, alimony and more than half of all your assets no matter what

HillaryRodhamFan · 2021-03-04T14:27:10+00:00

So brave! Such an unpopular opinion. You truly are wise beyond your years.

mickenrorty · 2021-03-05T02:48:35+00:00

I think it’s not entirely off the mark, but blanket assertions with the word ‘ALL’ are usually wrong but could allude to trends which are true. And with that said I think it’s true to say western women are riskier than other demographics with respect to LTR material.

I’m 34, and I’ve lived a little, been married, been divorced, fucked every type of women from every part of the globe. Western women are the least desirable long term and short term both for their attitude, ideologies and their appearance.

I’m dating a Filipino girl and fark I think they are the top of the list for good sex and life partners.

My closest single guy mates are definitely advised to avoid the western girls by people like myself

KirthWGersen · 2021-03-04T14:16:17+00:00

I think you are right that few Western women would suit the relationship models you have acquired from your family.

You have an image in your mind of what family life is ideally like that comes from your upbringing.

You are still very young so you now have the opportunity to step outside of your upbringing and consider different shapes
that relationships and families can take.

Then you can form your own idea about what you want and work out how to increase the odds of making that happen.

Anyone who tells you things can only be done one way is wrong.

Anyone who thinks any woman they like can meet their requirements is deluded.

PartyCanceller · 2021-03-04T20:51:20+00:00

I discovered TRP when I was 17, and until recently thought the same thing you’re asking right now. You’re young, surrounded by degenerate women who know nothing about nothing, and are using their youthful attractiveness to try and attract the best chad they can right now. Right now, work out, do well in your professional and/or academic aspirations, and cultivate good people skills, practice game, work on your style. In 2-3 years time, every woman will be falling at your feet for your attention.

Once you hit this position, it’s easier to see which ones are worth your time and which aren’t. Yes - many Western women are the worst. No - the west is not devoid of attractive women who can add meaning to your life. Grow yourself into the best man you can be and the good women will come.

FightForYourWay · 2021-03-04T14:53:54+00:00

At 18 you don’t know anything

Robin2Fast2Furious · 2021-03-04T15:01:12+00:00

You’re 18 years old. Too young to be even thinking about marriage. Focus on career, ambitions, travel, and self-improvement.

jhx264 · 2021-03-04T16:42:20+00:00

What is the opposite of naive?

That's what you are.

libtardslayer21 · 2021-03-04T16:53:13+00:00

Yes you are 100% correct. Radical feminism has destroyed western culture. Very few western women are ltr material. Just because you are 18 does not mean you cannot make good observations. Intelligence is not a function of age.

East asia is probably best for wife material. Korea, Japan would be my top picks. My wife is born and raised in Japan. She is totally different than western women. I would not marry a western woman.

adam-l · 2021-03-04T15:34:39+00:00

Yes, you are naive.

Women around the world are not worthy of marriage. Marriage is an institution insanely rigged. Those that say otherwise are clueless.

cunningcaring · 2021-03-04T13:06:54+00:00

“Worthy?” Women are under no obligation to live up to your standards. Accept women for what they are or spend you life alone.

Efficient_Film_149 · 2021-03-04T13:34:59+00:00

They’re all the same.

oooKenshiooo · 2021-03-04T17:34:44+00:00

No, you are realistic.

But there is a little nuance there: Not ALL western women are trash. Only the vast majority, to a point where you might as well try to find a needle in a haystack.

However... if you want to find that needle - you have to turn yourself into a magnet. ;)

Also, you should not think about marriage before you are 30.

Also, if you are going to get married, second generation immigrant women are usually a good place to look. They usually have their parents work ethic whilst still able to enjoy western liberties in moderation.
It's usually the third generation that falls off the wagon.

scissor_me_timbers00 · 2021-03-04T21:55:29+00:00

There are exceptions but you’re generally correct. Where are you from?

RelucBeam · 2021-03-04T22:20:51+00:00

Yes they are not and you cannot change that

The problem to this repeated truism is so simple

Don't marry them lol

Ta-dah!

CatholicPriestRapist · 2021-03-05T13:15:57+00:00

They aren't at all.

In fact, it's the worse financial decision you could ever make. Ever.

Half or more of your entire life fortune rides on the emotional swings of a broad.

Day to day. Week to week. Moment to moment.

Everything you ever worked for

2021-03-04T13:05:40+00:00

They’re worse than their trad counterparts in other parts of the world but they’re still all the same. The same principles of hypergamy etc still apply. Can’t change their biology.

Marriage is not wise unless you’re in a country that equally protects you and your assets from being raped. Otherwise it’s not worth being married on paper but even cohabiting females are now being given the same rights as married female.

Marrying young is a mistake as well. At least 30 years old and with good red pill legal advice on how to protect all assets and self.

Title	Am I (18M) being naive when I say that Western women aren’t worthy of marriage and/or LTRs?
Author	Due_sale_346
Upvotes	21
Comments	37
Date	March 4, 2021 12:55 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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