What if I want a girl best friend?

SublimePimp · 2021-03-04T09:25:10+00:00

Nah nothing wrong with it. I recommend a girl you’re not sexually attracted to tho. Girls as friends are generally more agreeable and non-competitive like men so it’s a nice thing. But if there’s sexual attraction you already know what happens

catsdontsmile · 2021-03-04T12:13:56+00:00

I have a hot best friend. She's great to take pictures with. Makes me seem higher smv with the girls I'm actually fucking

VasiliyZaitzev · 2021-03-04T19:41:42+00:00

Well we haven’t had an ”Am I gay?” post in a while.

You can go get a female friend, and then the first time you count on her for smth you will discover that she’s not really your friend.

KingGerbz · 2021-03-04T15:00:11+00:00

If you want a girl best friend, get a girl best friend.

If you want to be pegged, get pegged.

If you wanna starve yourself for a week, starve yourself for a week.

You get to choose what the fuck you wanna do with your life. It’s pretty nice once you recognize this.

red__Man · 2021-03-04T12:45:00+00:00

who will rescue you from your burning crashed car? definitely not a chick

btt069 · 2021-03-04T14:52:21+00:00

This is the reason why there should be a "feminine" girl bestfriend in your life who you DONT FUCK. Sometimes, sister, twin or mother or daughter(not really) can be your friend. But, remember you need to be masculine at all times, you can't be vulnerable to a hoe that you met from Tinder, that repels you quick from her.

Advice: keep yourself fucking busy, like real fucking busy so you dont have time to think about giving sympathy or empathy to a girl.

It's not wrong that you think this way, to get a girl bestfriend requires some luck and genuine friendship, using your GAME strategy will only make you feel that you are always manipulating everyone and thus it results into feeling empty.

Damn, Twin bro and sis of this planet are lucky.

Don_Draper27 · 2021-03-04T15:36:16+00:00

Impossible.

I have a "girl best friend". We're real close and I trust her more than almost anyone. But I will never feel like I can cry or break down in front of her. I think any woman that isn't your blood family will uncontrollably "lose interest" in you / distance herself.

I think that every person is hardwired to be conscious about the "vibration" of those around them. It's all subconscious but we always are aware of who in our tribe is dependable.

ScholarLad · 2021-03-04T15:15:29+00:00

Sounds like you want a LTR and a companion. This is normal and natural. Human beings evolved this way for tens of thousands of years. It’s only recently because of cultural decline that women have started acting the way they do. I recommend only dating traditional, conservative, Christian women. They exist, and they want the same thing you do.

Zafer66 · 2021-03-04T12:35:22+00:00

go and find a lesbian best friend. its a win win because then you can also meet her friends

linkofinsanity19 · 2021-03-04T11:45:15+00:00

Just not with a girl you wanna fuck. Especially if you're crying in her arms. When your eyes are wet, her pussy dries up.

Romu_HS · 2021-03-04T18:31:23+00:00

Get a dog

Herdsengineers · 2021-03-04T19:20:06+00:00

Masculine and feminine compliment each other. Nothing wrong with wanting your own piece of that included in a relationship with a woman. Just understand that in order to get it, you gotta vet and screen women to find one that isn't infected with western feminism radicalism. Such women don't compliment RP'd men well. Of course, they don't compliment BP'd men either.

That said - wanting a chick to cry in your arms - nothing wrong wanting to the strong one, but specifically finding a chick that will cry in your arms regularly or other similar stuff - you're looking for a chick that can be the white knight for and trust me, that is not a good place to be. There's a difference between being there for someone when they need you vs. becoming the dipshit that is carrying the water for her all that time for shit she should be doing herself. Don't go trying to volunteer for white knight captain save-a-hoe status. That will get you used, abused, and tossed in the trash when you're all used up in every circumstance.

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2021-03-04T18:52:49+00:00

I had a close female friend. She was a big tall girl. Liked to lift, I was very unattracted to her, (I think she was attracted to me though, attraction in general being the crux of the issue) and she was kind, giving and we had good long real talks. Most of the time we didn't even do anything, we just talked for hours. All of the trappings of a genuine friendship.

I don't see her anymore and it's not because we ever fought, ever. We got along swimmingly but if I had to hazard a guess as to why she left, I would say she saw that I was genuinely not attracted to her. These aren't real friendships. No male friend that you could just talk to for hours would just up and leave.

All that crying shit though, Idk what to tell you. Crying is a solitary thing for men and if you've got a LTR around long enough, they're gonna cry.

GrandmaManson · 2021-03-04T10:27:58+00:00

How about try a girlfriend.

familiarfolly · 2021-03-04T19:20:13+00:00

you just want to love and to be loved.

this is normal.

you’re not a sociopath.

promote a vetted LTR worthy plate if you have one. if you don’t, find one.

also be affectionate with your bros. it’s not gay if it’s not sexual

Jakeybaby125 · 2021-03-04T12:45:51+00:00

It's fine. I have one and I trust her the most out of everyone I know. Just my advice to you and other men who want a female best friend is to be careful. I got lucky and found a unicorn. You might not be as lucky

wessyy · 2021-03-04T11:09:37+00:00

You're gonna get disappointed

Musicgoon · 2021-03-04T11:28:12+00:00

What's wrong with guy friends?

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with platonic girl friends. If you want one, fucking get one. I have a really good platonic female friend. We go to shows together. But, I also have an OLTR and plates. So I wouldn't recommend a platonic female friend to someone who isn't good with women or isn't already successfully spinning plates.

Optionsmfd · 2021-03-04T17:35:23+00:00

probably why rollo says spin plates

... with that connection comes stuff like oneitis...... careful what u wish for

xxx69harambe69xxx · 2021-03-04T19:21:27+00:00

you can't

Casanova-Quinn · 2021-03-04T23:19:45+00:00

Is it wrong for me to want a girl to cry in my arms so I can comfort her

Not exactly, but idk why you'd want her crying. You can't just cuddle? lol

and vice versa?

Unless you want your GF to be dryer than the Sahara, yes it's wrong.

Is this just some deep rooted mommy issues?

Probably. Or too many rom-com movies.

Should I get a therapist

I guess, if it's that's bad and you've got money.

try getting a girl best friend

You can try it, but I'd doubt it'd work out.

AllocNeighley · 2021-03-05T06:26:40+00:00

If you are high value, confident and one night push for sex. You probably have sex.

But if you're not attracted don't do it. Then again, does she want a male friend and why?

CatholicPriestRapist · 2021-03-05T13:19:11+00:00

You're gay

dr_warlock · 2021-03-05T14:30:51+00:00

Please be a joke. How is this upvoted. If this is your goal, the manoaphere is of no use to you.

Yolemmegetsomehelp · 2021-03-04T11:01:35+00:00

Idk man, seems like a great problem to have. At least you're getting the ladies on a regular basis.

Title	What if I want a girl best friend?
Author	offtheshitproductive
Upvotes	23
Comments	37
Date	March 4, 2021 9:03 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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