Are you supposed to not care about plates fucking other dudes?

RedPilledPoet · 2021-03-14T23:59:54+00:00

She is fucking other guys.

Also, everyone youve ever known and loved will one day die, inclucing you. Taxes are due April 15. There is no Santa.

Theres a lot about life that is difficult, but acceptance and awareness are the antidote to suffering over these realities. It doesnt mean you dont care. It means that you are aware that you care.

Its also a good thing that you hate "the idea." It will check any propensity you may have or develop later for putting on the rose tinted glasses and seeing her as something she is not.

Drazicc85 · 2021-03-14T23:28:48+00:00

Just presume that she is doing that. Don’t ask her about it and pry for details. Even if she says she’s not, she likely is.

HarryDeBruyne · 2021-03-14T23:47:48+00:00

Every guy is different. All the abundance in the world might not ever get your jealousy to disappear. Paul Benjamin points out that our jealousy instinct is our “anti-cuck” instinct to protect us from raising someone else’s kids. There’s no shame in listening to it.

It’s not uncommon in TRP for men to only promote a woman to a plate if she’s willing to be exclusive on her side. Of course it’s more difficult and requires GBD on her part, but if you’re really turned off by the idea of sharing your plates try it out or work towards it.

Next time you have a prospect that you think might bite, try it. You’ve got nothing to lose.

Usually younger girls (think: 18-23) who are genuinely blown away by your Frame will be more open to this arrangement.

Women the same age as you, or women closer to The Wall (30+) will probably (but not definitely) despise you for even asking.

You could also find bisexual chicks who are willing to get their D exclusively from you, and pursue only chicks on their side. They’re a useful option for MFF threesomes as well.

Regardless of how you set it up, with an arrangement like this you’ll need excellent FC and you’ll probably get hit with a lot of comfort tests to assuage her fears of abandonment and jealousy. Women’s jealousy is rooted in losing her best sexual option and the provisioning he offers. Some dread is good, but if she comes to learn that her commuting to exclusivity is a way of keeping you and not losing you then she will be open to anything, provided she is head over heels for you.

slrml617 · 2021-03-14T23:50:41+00:00

The fact that you are thinking about this means she's more than plate in your mind. You need to recalibrate.

TenderBrigadier · 2021-03-14T23:30:35+00:00

It's called "riding the cock carousel" and nobody likes it but it's in their nature.

drugsbeatsex · 2021-03-15T00:51:22+00:00

Some plates don’t fuck other guys if they get attached, the best plates though always have other niggas

MrNeverDryDick · 2021-03-15T00:03:32+00:00

You shouldn’t care no. The whole idea of a plate is you KNOW it will eventually break.

K9_snoop · 2021-03-15T00:23:15+00:00

When you go to a restaurant, do you think the forks and knifes they give you were purchased just for you?

No, the silverware is washed and prepped for the next customer after you leave and the cycle repeats until that silverware breaks or the company goes out of business.

People are possessive by nature and it’s only natural for you to feel some type of way. But the reality of the situation is that anything she did nasty with you, she’s done it probably 5-10 times already with others.

If you want to mess around with a girl that doesn’t have a decent body count then talk to girl who don’t like sex. Or stick to your hands.

ComplexProjection · 2021-03-15T10:20:17+00:00

I don't share my girls. If they want to bang other dudes, they won't bang me. I usually don't try to know about it, but if the plate lets me know it happens, I'll ghost her.

I usually try to get commitment from them while keeping it open on my side. It usually works for several months, which is the time most of the guys here report a plate lasts anyway.

ripandtearuntil · 2021-03-15T02:07:28+00:00

You generally shouldn't care because it has no bearing on your personal satisfaction.

What she does in her free time makes no difference if she sucks your dick at your beck and call. You should be your sole point of origin.

SavorThePill · 2021-03-15T03:20:52+00:00

Well, they're not yours. You don't own them. For better or worse, people will do what they want. And we must accept that.

KuritaT · 2021-03-15T08:49:46+00:00

You already answered the question yourself. It only bothers you, because you don't have a steady stream of women available.

Then, ask yourself this: Do you want to only fuck one woman? If not and you wish for diversity and change, why would she be obligated to be exclusive with you?

email39 · 2021-03-15T04:58:09+00:00

Women are whores, just face it.

In this day and age, girls have at least an N-count of 50+.

bigmanoncrampus · 2021-03-15T08:25:49+00:00

When you realize that youre THEIR plate

scissor_me_timbers00 · 2021-03-15T09:44:44+00:00

I don’t like it either man. I don’t understand the guys who don’t care. And I have multiple girls. I still don’t like them fucking other guys. But, can’t control their lives and trying is a losing game.

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2021-03-15T10:34:00+00:00

Plate = Public property.

If you can't stand her fucking other men, walk away or lock her down.

Optionsmfd · 2021-03-15T09:52:55+00:00

my advice is to read the rational male

then read part 2 of the rational male

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-03-15T12:03:01+00:00

if a tree falls in the woods and no ones around, does it make a noise?

HitTheButtonFrank99 · 2021-03-15T14:10:34+00:00

Mentally frame any woman you are having sex with as she is cheating on a partner with you.

It's closer to the truth and will help you keep these girls in the correct category in your head.

a_hot_sip · 2021-03-15T00:19:47+00:00

My plates can only see me.

PMY0URBobsAndVagene · 2021-03-15T08:43:58+00:00

Date her if you wanna be exclusive, lol

SublimePimp · 2021-03-15T08:58:02+00:00

he’s threatened by the idea that other men are turning his bae into a CREAMY custard

I simply don’t give a shit. What are you worried about? STDs? That they’re giving her screaming orgasms and you’re not? They’re all whores, get used to it.

Lmoa.

Noodlesoupe2 · 2021-03-16T06:38:08+00:00

Get more girls and eventually you won't even care.

Title	Are you supposed to not care about plates fucking other dudes?
Author	ChanSamdler
Upvotes	22
Comments	35
Date	March 14, 2021 11:19 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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