How to deal with girls only wanting vanilla sex

stickfiguresk · 2016-11-06T15:59:39+00:00

I always initiate that last physical boundary by putting her hand on my dick over my pants and letting her escalate, or just whip it out and stick it in her face if it's a "walked in the door and ripped our clothes off" kind of thing.

If you convey that you'll do all the work, she'll take advantage of that and be a lazy star fish there for her free orgasm. Never eat her pussy first, especially when you just met the bitch.

frerri · 2016-11-06T15:22:31+00:00

Just tell her: "Id love to feel your lips around my dick, right now!" Much more effective than trying to shove her head down there and hoping she'd get the hit. It works too but she'd be more inclined to do it if you were 100% comfortable with talking dirty.

And tell her what you like, how good her pussy feels, how hot she is from this angle etc. They get a kick out of it!

Sure, I wouldnt say it if I didint mean it, so with these chubby girls maybe I wouldnt. And about chubby girls, Id rather jerk off than having them. Seriously. Because I know I get like a fucking animal when Im turned on, I almost black out at times when its getting heated so in the moment it might not be that bad.

But after, woaa. Just remember how much you're putting her up by fucking her. You're too good for fat chicks.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-11-06T16:18:45+00:00

When I seduce a girl, I tell her, in quite plain terms, that I am going to tie her up from the first time we have sex. It both sets expectations and sets the hamster to revving. I create the right narrative, so girls will think - and often say - "OMG! Nobody has ever talked to me like this before!" Meanwhile, they're thinking, "FUCK! That's so HAWT!" Thus, when I take them to bed, they've already been simmering in their own juices for a while, and I have also set expectations as to what I want. It weakens LMR, and if you get a "shy" girl, you can tell her at the moment of truth, "Sweetheart. I've already told you what I'm going to do to you." and then set about doing it.

So for you, OP, you have to properly set expectations when you're talking to her about sex. If your chubby girl is shy about her body, use some positive reinforcement about how you like her body, yada-yada. And tell her, "If you're shy, I can blindfold you." For whatever reason that works a lot of the time, whether they have body image issues or they are just shy.

Remember this: Women Seduce THEMSELVES

Sometimes, the hamster is your friend....

redditatt · 2016-11-06T16:06:40+00:00

You don't ask her to flip over and go doggy, you just do it.

huge_gap · 2016-11-06T15:43:09+00:00

When girls pull your head towards their face they're subconscious and don't want you doing anything or looking at their bodies.

GuestsGetGreens · 2016-11-06T15:19:01+00:00

You have to showcase some dominance over them. This has to come out in your interactions with her over the course of the night. If you do this right, she'll unzip your pants and start blowing you first

Squeezymypenisy · 2016-11-06T19:57:27+00:00

I've heard it's a weird trend of girls trying to get romantic. Do they also ask for cuddles?

war_drunk · 2016-11-06T20:19:27+00:00

Foreplay starts the minute you decide you want to bed her; is your demeanor vanilla or dominant?

ecosci · 2016-11-07T01:04:42+00:00

Just be natural and go with the flow never ask for a certain type of thing just move her around like a toy if ever a woman doesnt jump your dick everything else is duty sex the things she will do for an alpha will blow your mind.

PaperStreetVilla · 2016-11-06T15:50:07+00:00

Command in the middle of fingering her good. Girls go with the moment. If it moment feels that good, they are more inclined to follow your instructions on continued goodfeels.

Title	How to deal with girls only wanting vanilla sex
Author	Charles_Martel69
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	November 6, 2016 3:12 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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