It's a numbers game, but what if you go 0 for 50 with 50 strikeouts?

sweeet3 · 2021-06-16T05:19:59+00:00

Gathering from your other responses, you’re a tall fat dude with long hair with blue ends. Seriously? Blue ends?

Great work with the approaches, but your number one issue is clearly appearance. You’re 6’1 so you have a great base to work with. Start by cutting your hair short to a more masculine style instead of hamstering it away as some ‘beta’ shit. You’re approaching women to fuck them, not to compare hairstyles.

I can smell the insecurity in your comments about your weight. You need to face it head on. You’re fat. So get your ass to the gym and lose some weight. Less carbs and more cardio, that way you’ll stop being called fat by random people like me.

Try those same 50 approaches after this and I guarantee you’ll have a LOT more success.

Dan-Fox · 2021-06-16T03:06:56+00:00

I'd say stop with the anime/nerdy shit... or at least, complement it with better stuff. Find some cool sports and hobbies. Become a more interesting person.

319Skew · 2021-06-16T02:59:33+00:00

If you are striking out that much then it's not them it's you.

So here's the checklist :

Do you lift?

What's your body fat %?

How do you dress?

How do you approach?

What shit tests do you get? What's your response.

Do you Kino or try to close?

What are your logistics?

What's your social proof?

Name me the last most interesting thing you've done?

How big is your social circle?

TemperateSloth · 2021-06-16T02:52:28+00:00

You have to build the man before women are attracted to him and you still have a lot of building to do.

MattyAnon · 2021-06-16T03:04:55+00:00

Bars, clubs, tinder, bumble didn't matter. I got one girls Facebook info at a bar but she has a nice bf so obviously there was nothing there. Another girl gave me her number but made a face and never responded so possibly a fake number.

Did you TALK to these girls? Did you have FUN with them?

Ay-Bee-Sea · 2021-06-16T02:49:47+00:00

Well, learn from each rejection. If you told Stacey you're into anime and then she walked off with Chad 5 minutes later maybe stop telling Stacey's you're into anime and talk about sports or something. Of you don't get matches on tinder you're looking too average, you can change that by working out, and also by working on your style! I'm not saying fake it till you make it but making the right first impressions is important.

theworldaintshit · 2021-06-16T03:09:11+00:00

Your level of success in anything you attempt to do is defined by your will to learn at all costs. At some point, in order to continue learning, you'll decide to chuck your ego. This is where most people give up. Don't.

Same thing applies to talking to women.

itiswr1tten · 2021-06-16T05:37:26+00:00

So you're a complete mental and most likely partial physical disaster....and you think girls are the problem?

You can practice all you want, if your goal is to put the ball in the hoop and you're still airballing you have issues with the basics.

Somehow I am led to believe you're focused on "getting girls" and lack the simple mindset of going out because you want to go out and talk to people.

Believe it or not, it starts with listening skills.

Magrudagrind · 2021-06-16T06:51:25+00:00

Next time just have a good time out. Sounds like you obsessed and put too much pressure on yourself. I get that you want to mac on girls but you also seemed to give off that thirst aura. Bitches pick up on that fast.

Kodiak01 · 2021-06-16T13:19:29+00:00

In 2001, Craig Grebeck went 2 for 41 with the Boston Red Sox. His OPS+ was -55.

He still made $700,000 for that performance.

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. He went out there and kept taking shots and completely stinking up the joint 39 out of 41 times.

He still took his shots.

If you are 0-50, you get your ass back up to the plate for attempt #51. Maybe you have to change your approach. Maybe you need to go back to training camp. But your goal should always be to improve your chances that your NEXT shot will connect.

In the meantime, learn from those failures. You learn more from your failures than you do from successes.

gbizzle2 · 2021-06-16T03:29:37+00:00

Stop going out looking for women. Going out and trying to "score women" by talking to as many as you can is a losers mentality. AMS also said it himself.

If your focus is more on attracting women more than approaching then you will fix this issue. Thats what the choosing is for (IOIs). If you're not utilizing women's choosing signals then you're just lost.

Aubrey_D_Graham · 2021-06-16T03:47:26+00:00

If you honestly struck out 50 times, then your time would be better spent working on yourself or asking lower value women.

MixVirtual · 2021-06-16T02:43:41+00:00

Saving this post since i'm in a similar situation

hatefulreason · 2021-06-16T05:23:56+00:00

improve yourself, reduce standards, rinse and repeat

xxx69harambe69xxx · 2021-06-16T05:41:00+00:00

My hometown is kind of a small town desert

i stopped reading here

This is the 1000th time ive seen this as the root cause to baaically hundreds of different problems.

you need to move to a location with a higher population density, preferably one thats in the top percentile of popn densities

e.g. nyc, boston, LA

anywhere else, and you are not fixing the underlying problem, which is that society doesnt have a place for you at your current location. Youd be insane to keep hitting your head against the wall trying to make that location work

WIA20XX · 2021-06-17T00:08:35+00:00

Are you approaching chicks with any type of structure? Any kind of plan?

It doesn't sound like it.

And by not being consistent, you aren't figuring out what's wrong with your rap.

Title	It's a numbers game, but what if you go 0 for 50 with 50 strikeouts?
Author	shadowserpentishere
Upvotes	6
Comments	50
Date	June 16, 2021 2:29 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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