When I first started out in the game I had gone on a handful of dates and had a few ONS with chicks from bars, but I lacked experience and that chipped away at my confidence. I would often have negative thoughts such as "What if no girls find me attractive", "I'm not good enough to talk to hot chicks", etc. This is completely natural when you're going from Ground Zero to cold approaching hot chicks regularly. However, this was one of the biggest obstacles I faced - I genuinely didn't believe that I could get hot girls because my past inexperience had dictated otherwise. I was not a player and I was not banging a new girl every week, so I wondered why things would change. This all changed when I watched a video by Chris from Good Looking Loser about "Sense of Entitlement".

In the video Chris talked about how regardless of whether you have a 100 notch count or are a virgin, you can start developing a sense of entitlement toward hot girls by focusing on a handful of positive experiences. For example, if you hooked up with an HB8 in high school, or some cute girl you worked with found you attractive, or you made out with a hot girl at some party, or had an LTR with a hot girl - Just focus on those experiences and apply the law of large numbers

"If you've had sex with a hot girl, chances are there are more hot girls out there that will also have sex with you."

"If a hot girl found you attractive, chances are there are more hot girls out there that also find you attractive."

"If one girl said you were attractive, chances are there are more girls that also feel the same way."

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Think back to situations where a chick complemented you or approached you - there are probably MANY MORE chicks out there that also are attracted to you but aren't as up front with their interest.

In Bang, Roosh says that no matter what you believe your flaws are, there are girls out there that will sleep with you. You may think that you're not jacked enough, not tall enough, not good looking enough, not funny enough, etc. but there are many girls out there right now that will have sex with you. Even if only 0.001% of girls are attracted to you that gives you 7.67 MILLION OPTIONS in the world to have sex with. Internalize this mindset and understand that even if you have zero current prospects for sex you have UNLIMITED OPTIONS. It is your job as a man to APPROACH and find the girls that are attracted to you.

However, you should not stop working on yourself and stop improving your looks. Keep improving but also internalize this abundance mindset. Focus on the positive experiences you have had and remind yourself everyday:

"If one person thinks something, chances are there are other people that feel the same way."