When we text to meet up there is such fun playful banter. But as soon as we meet, she is in her head, avoids eye contact. I brought it up, but continues to avoid eye contact and the humor or playfulness is not there.

What do you guys think of this. Is she not interested, is there something else below the surface. Like I'm not showing up with great conversation, but its hard to communicate when they don't want to make eye contact and be in the present? We connect sexually, but outside that realm and texting. It feels like a emotional drain and she feels like an energy vampire. I can't seem to give her up though, feeling stuck!!