You gotta get out of this mindset, believing you're being privileged to something special by getting to spend time with women. She's not doing you any favors by sucking your dick. It's expected like alcohol at a bar. You are the prize. She is not. Start thinking/speaking like it, to begin acting like it:

  • I'm going hiking with Courtney later, then I get to take her out on the town.

  • Courtney and I are going hiking together. Then we're hitting the town.

  • Courtney is coming hiking with me, then she's tagging along for my night out.

All three of these answer the question, What's going on with your night? Yet they paint substantially different pictures. The first one shines light on a man, thinking he's lucky to be going out with Courtney. The second one almost looks like a couple. Finally the third ends up casting a condescending shadow.

You gotta quit thinking, you get to with woman. You don't get to take her out, she's lucky to be going out with you. You don't get to stick it up her ass, she should feel honored. She's not doing you any favors by coming along to the amusement park.

We're not together. I'm with you. You're with me. You made the choice. I made the choice. Don't fuck with me, "it can end at any time."

Dating/plating girls isn't a team effort. If it was, you two would be on opposite sides of the court. While we attempt to obtain sex with the least amount of resistance. It's in the females better interest to give it up after throwing out large amounts of shit tests. Even in a LTR, if you're not on guard, she's going to slowly eat away at you. It's what women do to the men they love. She's just making sure you're still sharp.

Condescending: you're damn right I'm better than the girls I'm involved with. They wouldn't be involving themselves with me if I wasn't. If I'm bringing a women on a hike, I'm compromising distance, pace, level of terrain for pussy. Do you really think Courtney is going hiking if I bail? I am if she blows me off. She sure seems to be on the trails a lot more compared to before we started fucking. Couldn't tell you why that is.

I am the reason she's going hiking today. I am the reason she's going out on the town tonight. I am doing her the favor by giving the privilege of my time and adventure. I'm the one taking her for a ride. She's not deciding where we go because she doesn't want to. This is my life and I'm letting her into it. Not the other way around.

So which of three statements above, most accurately describes the reality of the situation?