Is there a proof that there is unequal distribution of partners?

zoemondo · 2021-07-24T09:53:28+00:00

Whoever makes the claim, the burden of proof is on them.

There's not exactly an equal number of men and women on earth, for the record. Under age 40ish, there's more men than women. There's just no way for there to ever be an equal distribution of partners. I also take issue with the fact that people are being looked at like resources.

Red_Trapezoid · 2021-07-24T12:09:48+00:00

No. However there is some research saying that Feminist men are having more sex. If you'll humor an anecdote, I talk quite a bit with women and they tell me things they definitely don't tell most other men, I get the impression that women don't like a lot of men. Not because of some incel-y "oh I have thin wrists" nonsense but because a lot of men are immature, manipulative, misogynistic, entitled, coercive, lecherous, creepy and so on and so forth. The way so many men behave is so gross and alarming that many women tend to have their guard up around men who don't act that way. Unfortunately this is also understandable as I was just reading a thread today about a girl whose best friend of FOUR YEARS revealed himself to be a creep and tried to prey on her.

markyboy818 · 2021-07-24T14:49:11+00:00

I think the statistics say 10-20% are sleeping with 80% of women. I think the data means means men who are actively and consistently getting sex. When your read the data like that it sounds like the other 80 percent of men are virgins which is not true.

SophiaEK · 2021-07-25T10:09:46+00:00

No "proof", but let's break it down. The claim is that 10% of men have sex with 90% of women. So, out of 10 guys, and 10 gals, 1 guy is having sex with 9 women, while 9 guys are having sex with one. That is an impossibility. It's not statistically possible, only egotistically possible. Also, note, that 10% of women, then, are having sex with 90% of the men. Women could claim the same statistic. It's a dumb claim. However, I would agree that one person has a chance of having sex with 9 out of 10 people they meet. It has nothing to do with money. It has a lot to do with confidence, charm, charisma, sex appeal, and timing.

LostHumanFishPerson · 2021-07-28T14:36:56+00:00

Most of my friends, men and women, seem to be about the same. Some have been in very long relationships and have only slept with one or two people. The rest of us are in the 5 - 12 range. The occasional random hookup, shorter relationships e.t.c. There doesn't appear to be any great gender disparity in my circles.

Gmed66 · 2021-07-24T18:02:26+00:00

Do you really need a study or evidence to tell you that good looking men have an easier time hooking up than less attractive men?

Your grandparents even knew this, as did your parents. This isn't some new revelation to the world. And most of the general population knows this too.

JimBeamAndCoke2016 · 2021-07-28T10:33:19+00:00

I've seen evidence of the 80/20 rule on many occasions, when it comes to women finding men attractive, whether it be school, uni, workplace or social gatherings. Situations where there is an even number of men and women of varying levels of attractiveness, the majority of the women will be drawn to the most attractive percentage of the men there. It's not difficult or unrealistic to assume that the same applies to sex too.

neonroli47 · 2021-08-15T15:24:49+00:00

Institution of family studies have an article on incels. Look it up. It says, in terms of casual sex, in both men and women, 20% have 60% of the sex. The factoid here that goes against red pill is, the percentage of sex that these "top men" are having haven’t changed through the years. Per redpill, because of dating apps, the percentage now should have been even more skewed towards minority of very handsome guys. That's not what they've found.

Thus, whatever the change in total sexlessness, there’s no appreciable change in the concentration of sex among never-married young men and women. The core incel story about what’s going on here—that a few Chads are hoarding a growing share of Stacies, depriving incels of mates—just doesn’t hold up. The top 20% of unmarried men are having about the same share of total sexual activity or sexual partnerings as has been the case for decades.

Jgamesworth · 2021-07-26T16:22:14+00:00

No, it's actually pretty much equal. People end up with their equals and hookup culture is a myth. People are having less sex and when they do, it's when they are in a relationship. So people in relationships are the ones having sex. Men and women enter their early 20s as virgins at similar rates and those differences become non existant once people get into their mid to late 20s. There is no proof that all women are actually having sex with a minority of men.

Title	Is there a proof that there is unequal distribution of partners?
Author	off_ri
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Date	July 24, 2021 8:47 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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