This article also advises blocking & deleting after breaking up with a Narcissist 🙅‍♀️

top_of_the_stairs · 2021-07-31T18:15:28+00:00

Apologies with formatting, I also meant to include this text:

As soon as we know what they are (as soon as their mask either slips off their face or you tear it off yourself), it's time to evict his rent-free toxicity from our lives, our minds, and our hearts.

It's never too late for a spring-cleaning, ladies; out with the old & dirty (the web of lies spun by LVMs & NVMs & Narcs) and in with the sunshine and fresh air of honesty, reality, and self-empowerment ☀️

hopewings · 2021-07-31T23:38:51+00:00

This part rubbed me the wrong way.

For example, my husband dated a girl before me for over four years. They were pretty serious, and he was close to her family. Their breakup was a circumstantial, respectful one, brought about when they realized they wanted to live on different continents and had different aims in life. Two decades on, they remain peripherally in each other’s lives — to the level of swapping birthday and Christmas greetings and asking mutual friends to pass on good wishes where required. There’s no rancour.

This has the "look how civil people who keep in contact with their ex's are!" self-congratulatory vibe. I don't buy that shit at all. I bet she hates the fact that they swap birthday and Christmas greetings, remain in each other's lives, and stays in her husband's thoughts and contact list.

Block and delete applies to every ex, because there is just no point in staying in contact unless you share children.

thenotoriousaep · 2021-07-31T20:26:08+00:00

Yeah but then they get new phone numbers until you get a restraining order....

_electrafire · 2021-08-01T02:31:00+00:00

Interesting how she described her first husband as abusive but not as a full-on narcissist. Didn’t know there’s a difference?

Title	This article also advises blocking & deleting after breaking up with a Narcissist 🙅‍♀️
Author	top_of_the_stairs
Upvotes	114
Comments	9
Date	July 31, 2021 6:13 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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