Look out for your brothers

alpacapelz · 2021-04-28T04:45:55+00:00

Honestly, if a couple of my best friends weren’t there to comfort me when I found out my exwife was cheating, I might not have been here today. Always look out for your friends

Thereisnopurpose12 · 2021-05-18T12:16:28+00:00

Today is one of those days for me. Currently drinking a couple to crush the misery of existence.

Chinny_YT · 2021-04-28T04:43:39+00:00

this is why we don't gossip

BeckTech · 2021-04-28T05:06:53+00:00

I’m more introverted, so I actually prefer it if people leave me alone. My walls seem to get taller and the fences around me get more locks when it comes to the people I let in.

Both male and female friends, I have been screwed over by both. I’ve had coworkers and bosses screw me over and take advantage of me because I’m quiet and keep to myself.

When it comes to said bosses, I could probably write books and blog posts about those people, exposing them for who they are. But at the end of the day, it doesn’t matter. I’d rather stay quiet because I do not want to get those people involved.

The best way to get back at someone is living a better life and that’s what I’m trying to do now.

Yasai101 · 2021-04-28T05:25:25+00:00

Stop taking on unnecessary responsability and stressing your mind and your body.

ShelterBeautiful · 2021-04-28T05:04:40+00:00

So true

SUEDE2BLACK · 2021-04-28T05:48:49+00:00

I find being rich and avoiding women soothes all pains.

But living things need a purpose and reason to exist...I think that's why so many men play video games and get involved in sports.I know guys that are really onto games they are not MGTOW but games fulfill them with enough purpose they have no desire to seek out women.

When I was younger I really thought these guys where wierd but now I see they where on to something years later these guts have no child support alimony etc most of them are programmers and do well even if they are a bit socially awkward in person.

It seems odd that someone's life can exist in a virtual world but that beats suicide and anger that some men deal with when they have no purpose and focus on that.

leroy2007 · 2021-04-28T12:44:29+00:00

This makes me think about when my son was born. He had some problems and spent the first 4 days of his life in the NICU before we were able to bring him home. It was traumatizing. During that time I had to be the rock and be supportive of everyone around me. My wife, my sisters and even my mom all fucking fell apart and I was the “strong” one. This type of stuff around the expectations on men didn’t even fully occur to me until years later in therapy when I realized that nobody was there for ME throughout the whole ordeal.

kriskros18 · 2021-04-28T18:42:52+00:00

Plantation wants you to mistake responsibilities for life’s purpose.

ConfederateGuy · 2021-04-28T08:18:29+00:00

This was why all Male social clubs/organizations/fraternities and other all male spaces came under direct assault in the 70's by the F'n-ist movment.

Sure places like The Playboy Club WERE sexist and Yes female sports reporters did NEED to have access to Male locker rooms in order to do their jobs regardless of any nudity they might see BUT in the zeal to take those down they took out a support sustem that Men needed to be around just other Men and be able to deal with mental and emotional health in ways that women will never understand. Some guys NEED to blow off steam in ways that would frighten women but guys will understand.

Some things DID need to change but they took it too far and the sacred all Male spaces are no more but yet places for women only are common.

WereAllGonnaMakeit7 · 2021-04-28T06:12:06+00:00

Fuck I agree with this. I do think a lot of guys do end up getting isolated though. Which sucks. Really unfortunate. I hope there’s a way for guys to link up going forward. Many men already do it online, virtually. Like here, reddit, and also video games, discord, youtube comments lol, facebook groups, etc etc. But more irl kind of stuff would probably significantly help men’s mental health

kapriece · 2021-04-28T12:06:51+00:00

The isolation part is the most important. In domestic violence cases there is isolation. One is made to get rid of all their friends and family. People believe men can just take because we're strong. We shouldn't have to take it at all. When you throw feminism into the mix, these bitches have been co-opting men to make men pay for what men did in the past. They don't understand that a hundred years ago none of them had any skills or wanted to build anything. When pushed in to STEM they still don't want to do it. Free-est women on Earth but are unhappy and to the point of making men commit suicide. Brother please keep your friends around and don't confide in women. The minute you stop talking to other men is when trouble starts.

victor_knight · 2021-04-28T09:07:27+00:00

It's hard to say how many lives the MGTOW movement alone has saved. Especially men from suicide (over women/children, of all things). I'm sure it has also eased the pain of divorce and relationship trouble for many more.

hotbiscut689 · 2021-04-28T16:36:57+00:00

Eww no he’s British

Tarun_slayer199 · 2021-04-28T22:12:37+00:00

Change this system , traditionalism IS gynocentric as feminism , true equality must be achieved, even if its hard to imagine

UtetopiaSS · 2021-04-29T02:05:28+00:00

"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved on the condition that he provides something" - Chris Rock

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zzZUikIAsbU

missmewitDam · 2021-04-28T14:57:23+00:00

Yo who wants to go riding this weekend? Northern VA. No sports bikes, I am a grown man.

twodarkboys · 2021-04-28T12:07:34+00:00

I have so much gratitude for you bros !!

gaycountdooku · 2021-05-22T05:15:50+00:00

an incredibly toxic outlook. if you’re in a loving relationship you should be able to rely on your SO

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ads514438 · 2021-04-28T14:00:25+00:00

I dont have too many friends. But my 2 male best friends are paramount to my life. We as men absolutely need make friendships. Even you introverted guys. We're not built to take on the world alone.

Yes, it's more than possible to learn how to be alone and enjoy your own company. But why do that? You take away alot of what makes life so enjoyable: having good people in your life.

Own-Pressure4018 · 2021-04-28T15:21:05+00:00

So sad that men are seen as the enemy

nifty_mick · 2021-04-28T13:43:05+00:00

thanks for this and its true

SticklrTicklr · 2021-04-28T16:33:11+00:00

I see you out here struggling and working hard Kings. Don’t let anything/one get you down, and if it does, Fight! These things will pass and you will emerge from the wreckage unscathed and resilient. I Love y’all <3

Professional_Gold_25 · 2021-04-28T14:55:09+00:00

But wahmen are there for you in your time of need, right?? Lol

Mongo1021 · 2021-07-08T21:36:58+00:00

Thank you. I wish I had some guy friends. It's nearly impossible to make new friends if you're an adult male.

I'm middle-aged, married, and struggle with suicidal thoughts.

I'm in therapy, but a buddy to have a beer with, and talk things through, would be nice.

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Title	Look out for your brothers
Author	Loban8990
Upvotes	1
Comments	83
Date	April 28, 2021 4:12 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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