Remember

Particular_Band · 2021-01-14T00:47:58+00:00

I struggle with doing this I know. I tend to blame myself for the divorce even though she never told me she was unhappy. Even though I supported every decision she ever made and was faithful. I know I had my faults and made my mistakes but she ruined what we built over a decade so that she could run off with someone else.

I need to remind myself of who she became and not who she was, and that, the person I still love no longer exists.

SkullValleyCowboy · 2021-01-14T00:07:58+00:00

Can I get a witness 🙋‍♂️!!!

We forget these things in the initial stages being lonely. Truer words have never been said.

jimsmythee · 2021-01-14T17:00:12+00:00

It's true. I would say "I still love the woman I married." But the woman I divorced is 100% different.

adl3026 · 2021-01-13T23:17:40+00:00

Amen!

ThirdActScorpio · 2021-01-14T16:06:03+00:00

I mean, this isn’t the case for everyone.

I have nothing negative to say about my wife as a person or as a woman. She was an amazing person, and I was lucky to be in a romantic relationship with her for 10 years. We were just not compatible. That’s not anyone’s fault. Doesn’t make her a bad person. We’re still friends till this day.

But if you were in a toxic relationship, then, yeah, definitely don’t dwell back on the memories of the good times together.

RX8JIM · 2021-01-14T15:46:20+00:00

One of the best posts I've ever seen. Thank you

TravellingDivorcee · 2021-01-14T20:07:33+00:00

I need to print this off and hang it up in every room.

Flashy_Quiet_6474 · 2021-01-27T02:57:11+00:00

I married my wife whom i met in Australia I was Irish good-looking out going very socialble

She was Scottish very good looking still is and very intelligent we just clicked

Nothing was a problem Worked together as a team to overcome any problems or barriers we incurred

Then moved back to Scotland mind I'm Irish

Ps love the Scots

Been together now 12 years

Have no love and no respect for each other Have 2 lovely kids want to leave her but want to see my kids

Every night I lay in bed thinking about 1 other women

2 when I can leave

And 3 we have not had sexx in 2 year what is driving my porn to keep me satisfied

If I was getting sex I would not be watching so much porn

HELP Mr Mageor

Title	Remember
Author	bigtony199077
Upvotes	127
Comments	15
Date	January 13, 2021 10:13 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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