My ex sees our two children [16F and 6F] for all of 9 hours this week. What does she do? She uses some of that time to take them to the grocery store. She didnt use any of the other 159 hours in the week. She waited until her visitation time to take them out into public. There are even signs on the doors at the store that you should not be bringing your entire family to the store. And other than asking her to kindly not do that again, there is nothing I can do to stop her from endangering us all.