Who's idea was it to get divorced .. Man or woman?

ManOfMode · 2020-03-02T04:49:39+00:00

My decision. I’m a man.

Brokenbyher2019 · 2020-03-02T05:33:55+00:00

I chose divorce. She chose the affair. I took back a little bit of my pride.

CM1822 · 2020-03-02T20:06:48+00:00

We agreed to get a divorce, she filed a week later. Asked for everything, including the kitchen sink. She got non of my pension because I was injured on the job. I pay her over $2000 a month for alimony and child support. She gets alimony for life and get nothing in return. My kids won’t even speak to me.

2020-03-02T04:25:50+00:00

Well, through history, men were the only ones who were able to advance divorce. It wasn't until the sexual revolution that more women began to file. Men used to automatically be awarded children. Women cast out.

kevinburner · 2020-03-02T12:32:14+00:00

She wanted a dog. I didn't want to be one. I thrashed the divorce once I was sure that she didn't give any fucks about me

SpearCatcher1 · 2020-03-02T23:17:33+00:00

I am the one who filed first, but the enormous sense of entitlement on behalf of the wife, that seemed similar.

KneeDeepThought · 2020-03-02T13:09:32+00:00

Young women growing up today are seeing new headlines every week about women like MacKenzie Bezos, Janet Jackson, and even Amber Heard who can do whatever the fuck they want forever and be rewarded with millions or billions of dollars for abandoning your "lifelong" vows. This sets up a FOMO competition and just reinforces the idea they all have supreme power over men and all deserve whatever they feel like taking from them and can do no wrong in the process.

So, this is why they initiate most of the divorces, they think they're cashing in a winning lottery ticket. Most of the time it doesn't work out exactly like they planned and many wind up destitute with permanently damaged children. They won't ever admit it of course, because they still live in their Princess Echo Chambers, raising the next generation of broken kids with unrealistic pretentious expectations.

Brokenbyher2019 · 2020-03-02T05:36:01+00:00

History is a funny thing. If you google hard enough you always get the answer you want.

But in days old, you could only divorce in western civilization if it was constant adultery, among other things like abuse and other things.

But know too, that marriage in old days was also less about love and more about convenience and expected.

Nitrothacat · 2020-03-02T17:45:01+00:00

My ex was the one that suggested it. Of course I was the one that filed, paid for it and went to court.

GrayCalf · 2020-03-03T18:14:03+00:00

My decision. She ran away with her friend and I was able to get some idea of what she was up to.

I told her I was done, and that was that.

I kept control of the house too, and changed the locks once we had the conversation. Sure she could call the police to have her let back in until the papers were signed, but she wouldn't do that given her other "activities."

CM1822 · 2020-03-03T20:57:00+00:00

They are trying to change the it in the state of Florida where I live. My ex got lifetime alimony and will not lose it unless she gets remarried, co habits it one of ya passes. The state legislature is trying to eliminate lifetime alimony.

NO_PRND · 2020-03-05T17:14:22+00:00

My wife. Got a Facebook message from the wife of the other man 8 days before it happened. She proceeded to tell me that we've been dead for two years and I should not be surprised whilst ignoring the fact that two days before I ask her for marital counseling for our problems. She went anyway I filed the paperwork and had her serve the second she got back. so she decided I acted.

Title	Who's idea was it to get divorced .. Man or woman?
Author	TheTruthSeeker007
Upvotes	9
Comments	16
Date	March 2, 2020 4:04 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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