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[–]4agreements 1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[+]Reverbandtremolo1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
So with mediation I was led to believe we have joint legal and joint physical custody.
[–]4agreements 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]SingleISuppose 0 points1 point2 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[+]Reverbandtremolo1 points [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
Her reasoning is “she will not have your address as her primary address” even though she’s with me a majority of each week, and I claim her on my taxes. Also she states it’s not her grandmothers job or privilege to get her on and off the bus, so I guess it’s somebody else’s job? I think it boils down to her wanting to continue to control the situation without having to actually deal with getting our daughter ready, back and forth from school, all that good stuff. I’m really not sure how she can view less time at home and going to a worse school district as beneficial to our daughter at all.
[–]SingleISuppose 1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[+]Reverbandtremolo1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
I will have to look over the separation agreement to be sure. My daughters mom seems to like all the fun stuff with our daughter but all of the responsibility falls on me it seems.
[–]SingleISuppose 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]bramlugh 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SpearCatcher1 0 points1 point2 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[+]Reverbandtremolo1 points [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Any tips on finding the right lawyer for me? I figured that was my next course of action, and I have an appointment next week.
[–]Brokenbyher2019 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SpearCatcher1 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]wescowell 0 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[+]Reverbandtremolo1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
My bad buddy, I’m just trying to figure out the best thing to do here. I’m fully aware the courts favor mothers in these situations and I had hoped to get some input
[–]wescowell 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]piratepastfifty 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Big_Daddy_PDX 0 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[+]Reverbandtremolo1 points [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
I re-read the separation agreement. We have joint legal, and joint physical. I feel very much like a passenger in all this. I meet with a lawyer next week.
[–]Big_Daddy_PDX 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link