Married 4 years considering divorce. Met with wife tonight about future. She told me in order to move forward in our marriage I need to develop a spiritual practice. I told her I'm sick of paying for everything. We dont have kids and she works. Am I being a bitch or is she crazy?

tinkerb3lll · 2019-06-20T05:23:32+00:00

Sounds like she is a nutter, what does she really mean by that ? Is she really spiritual ?

Why isn't she sharing the bills if she works, how bigger difference are your salaries ?

My wife worked by is a low income, so paid all the bills .. now she gets the house and she paid squat in all our 19 years of marriage ...

If she earns the same as you are close, she would be sharing the load ..

CarGuyM1985 · 2019-06-20T13:37:07+00:00

Schedule counseling, don’t assume you two have the tools to work through it alone. Good luck!

into_being · 2019-06-20T15:37:39+00:00

NOTE: "spiritual practice" likely means ascribing to unsubstantiated belief/dogma that she can use to control you and/or meet other people.

If you don't have one already, why does she need you to have one, and why is it seemingly arbitrary which spiritual practice you choose?

Also, why would she turn down free shit if you've willingly been paying all this time? Expect, "i thought that's how you wanted it."

source: cynical me

10projo · 2019-06-21T01:49:40+00:00

Get out !

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