The state of feminism, “we cannot handle equal blame for our problems.”

sony_anumo · 2021-07-30T17:24:16+00:00

Every time my sister makes the argument about how all men are bad, i simply enlighten her about the fact that by this logic it also means all muslims are terrorists and all blacks are gangsters.

Normally the argument ends there with her crying or redirectinng the topic with insults.

TheDoc1223 · 2021-07-30T16:43:24+00:00

Women's hatred of men leads to dehumanization, being treated like an object or tool with various uses thats tossed out when those uses are no longer met, feelings of constant inferiority and failure, unreachable expectations for men physically and emotionally, and shaming and suppression of men for being honest about who they are and how they feel.

Men's hatred of women is a result of said dehumanization, shaming, and suppression of personality, and leads to us being cautious for our own mental health and ability to function in society without feeling like a constant failure. Thats the difference.

Horseshoe theory is so real its not even funny lol. Its amazing to me how people like this dont see how fast and easily justifying hate can be turned against them with similar ancedotal and emotional conjecture.

Hate is hate, and hating a massive amount of people people you've never met and have done nothing wrong or worthy of hatred just because they share traits with assholes you've interacted with and had the misfortune of hurting you or someone you love is the same justification used for everything from racism to creation of the Third Reich. Its not "gas the men" yet, but Nazi Germany didnt come hot out the gate with concentration camps, it was a slow effort of dehumanization and lowering the bar of whats okay to do to Jewish people more and more until genocide was on the table. Lowering the bar and justifying hatred and blaming groups for all your problems never has and never will result in ANYTHING good.

stappernn · 2021-07-30T16:32:58+00:00

a similar argument is used unironically for racism....

QSRQuasar · 2021-07-30T15:51:43+00:00

Feminism is failing both genders. I just hope the people see that soon.

funkynotorious · 2021-07-30T16:21:05+00:00

And people say this is only loud minority. Yeah loud minority doesn't give over thousand upvotes. Literally the most popular posts on Feminist are blaming men or shaming all men just because they exist.

yoitsericc · 2021-07-30T16:13:40+00:00

My comments on this thread got me banned from r/Feminism.

I don't care. They are burying their heads in the sand and cannot handle rational arguments.

LogicAllArround · 2021-07-30T20:02:01+00:00

"men bad, women good"

"I am very smart and fair."

BubbleBassV2 · 2021-07-30T18:42:29+00:00

They want equal rights, but not equal responsibility

LawItUp77 · 2021-07-30T19:52:37+00:00

What I’ve realized is when I hear “all men are trash” they are 99% pissed off about their own situation. I don’t even give it any thought

sodiumbicarbonade · 2021-07-30T19:10:02+00:00

Precisely for most feminists who don’t understand feminism

dueytk · 2021-07-30T16:46:39+00:00

Feminism has become so toxic and the name itself sounds bias. Let's just get rid of the term and just move towards egalitarianism. It's starts with and "e" and sounds so much cooler.

finalrebel · 2021-07-30T17:06:32+00:00

Now that women have achieved equality, they are beginning to realize all the hardships men go through that were never talked about, or dismissed by women. Now that women have to be responsible, orderly, and competent, they are realizing it is too difficult for many of them. So what do they do?

They complain and expect men to change the status quo that has existed for thousands of years, and by large part provided women the ability to, when they really should change the status quo on their own, with the understanding that more often than not when the women go the men will follow.

Xiximaro · 2021-07-31T02:02:18+00:00

Well... just for the fact that I have seen men do crazy shit for women, makes this post smell like burning garbadge.

Must have been written by some bitter women who didn't get as much attention from men like her "friends" did lmao

GabKoost · 2021-07-30T19:36:58+00:00

It takes a very handicapped people to look at humanity and come to the conclusion that men hate women.

All men do is endure though lives to protect their wife and children. We went to wars, gave our lives and came up with millions of artistic creations devoted to women.

And yet, for this one, it is not enough. She is so self centered, stupid and arrogant that she is incapable to see this.

Or, on the other hand, she's juts nasty both physically and in personality and, indeed, just got hate from men.

And i can see why,

stanimir12310 · 2021-07-30T19:18:07+00:00

Fuck feminists

stanimir12310 · 2021-07-30T19:18:19+00:00

Fuck feminists

mcg42ray · 2021-07-30T23:31:32+00:00

When women got the right to vote, they could (and did) vote to force 440,000 American men to die in WWII, 40,000 in Korea, 55,000 in Vietnam. And today, about 100 years after women got the vote, they're still not required to register for the draft.

freman · 2021-07-31T04:10:48+00:00

I don't understand where they get that men hate women. For centuries we've done everything we can to love, cherish and protect them.

Women and children first Ladies first Etc etc

Shinlo16 · 2021-07-31T05:38:27+00:00

These cunts wanna be oppressed so badly lmao

Malbek604 · 2021-07-30T16:59:06+00:00

Those types are after a matriarch-led female supremacist culture, not equality.

KiiimJisooo · 2021-07-30T17:20:14+00:00

Honestly, feminism is just misandry in disguise and it's not even that hard to prove it at this point

thunderstorm-nigg · 2021-07-30T17:31:53+00:00

Your comment was most genuine and almost flawless

ronoda12 · 2021-07-30T23:30:35+00:00

Whichever degenerated man hating low life scum wrote that belongs to a particular sub I know of

musicalrssnroulette · 2021-07-30T17:16:18+00:00

Feminists just want to grocery shop for what men have, equal pay? Fuck yeah! Equal danger? No I’m just a girl

Y’all wanna be treated equal but at the same time want all the benefits of being a female, it’s honestly mind blowing

Pipps17 · 2021-07-30T19:21:34+00:00

Isnt that equality everybody hates the other sex then its equil.

BoreDominated · 2021-07-30T19:40:32+00:00

Oh I got permabanned from there ages ago, I can't even remember what it was for, I just know I made the mistake of disagreeing with someone. I'm instantly dismissive of subs that are echo chambers, no matter which side of the political spectrum they're on.

SirSquire58 · 2021-07-30T21:42:24+00:00

Societal Accountability for women is almost nonexistent lol

HonestAsshole420 · 2021-07-30T21:51:36+00:00

The state of reddit.

Reasonable-Wealth647 · 2021-07-30T22:54:46+00:00

Dang that's a long winded way to say hypocrite.

UbiquitousWobbegong · 2021-07-31T05:12:15+00:00

You know, it's really cool how if I'm not online almost all discrimination, and talk of discrimination, just goes away. Anyone I meet irl who has this perpetual victim mentality is pretty much alone, because no one wants that garbage fire in their life.

99% of men and women are just cool when it comes to this stuff. Everyone is busy just doing them.

hesam_lovesgames · 2021-07-31T06:59:04+00:00

Dude same, i got banned cuz i commented on a post where op was complaining the media avoided the use of the word rape in a situation where it was applicable (and a man was the perpetrator) saying the folks at pussypassdenied have the same problem, so it seems like the media just does that. I got perma banned in 2 minutes!

SuperDropBear · 2021-07-31T08:11:25+00:00

And here I was thinking feminism was about men and women being equal. But nope as I suspected it's about being hateful and creating divides like most groups that proclaim to be about equality seem to be.

If you want equality for all there is only one word you apply to yourself. Egalitarian.

Anything other than that makes your true intentions clear.

AnotherBrock · 2021-07-31T08:43:26+00:00

Rationality is illegal in incel and femcel subreddits

Rogueshoten · 2021-07-31T10:37:15+00:00

The fact that you got banned instead of debated is the ultimate validation of your point.

putin_vor · 2021-07-30T16:45:58+00:00

I don't think most men or most women hate the opposite gender.

This is just feminist gaslighting.

scaredofshaka · 2021-07-30T16:50:00+00:00

why doesn't she attempt to give a reason for men's hatred towards women? It's a completely bogus post of course, but even with that, there is a double standard.

ManagementPlane5283 · 2021-07-30T18:09:43+00:00

Sorry but a screenshot of OP replying to a post of a screenshot of a womans' opinion who probably isn't even aware her text ended up on reddit is a far cry from a pussy pass being denied.

ILoveBentonsBacon · 2021-07-30T17:38:48+00:00

I can smell the sourness of their folds and the coloring of their asymmetric haircuts from here.

Nightwingvyse · 2021-07-30T18:30:56+00:00

So I'm guessing your ban has already come through.....

Zpointe · 2021-07-30T16:50:35+00:00

lol!

SleepingUte0417 · 2021-07-31T04:53:22+00:00

I don’t even know where to begin with this. women are their own enemies. the older i get the more i despise how women can be. they wanna sit around a bitch about equal rights while posting garbage on the internet instead of just fucking working their asses off. should women be paid less than men? should women be treated worse than men? no and no. but the world isn’t fair and bitching about it while your “idols” are rich cunt gold diggers is asinine. shut the fuck up and be better. show others your value by working hard. don’t expect things to change just cos you have tits and asked.

“how can you say that??” i’m a woman. i work in the construction and management industry. i run my own store for a local lumberyard. 2/3 of my employees are men older than 50. when i started? i knew zero about this industry but i busted my ass, stood up for myself, and admitted when i was wrong or stupid. i went from 0 to store manager in 8 years.

my wife (yes. my WIFE) is a manager of a auto repair shop. a large national company. she was just told she will be the next promoted to run an entire region once that position is vacant. she’s been there for 6 years. she takes a lot less shit than i do admittedly.

have we gotten passed up for promotions? yes. have we had to push for our wages with our bosses? yes. but we made sure they knew we earned the right to be recognized.

i’m sick of women playing victims. it’s old. man up. get dirty. work hard. be rational. if you have to be 10x better than a man then be 10x better. the more we do that the more we move forward. no one will take us seriously if we bitch and moan. we have to become needed.

ps. my dads new phrase (he heard it from my brothers new baseball coach and i LOVE it).. “walk out, cock out.”

so… walk out, cock out ladies. no more pussy hats.

pacg · 2021-07-31T05:25:39+00:00

The only guy I ever knew who came even close to hating women had gone through a miserable, painful breakup. Eventually he got over it and stopped hating women. Otherwise, the guys I know love women. What’s not to love?

However, guys do hate bitches.

Fishpuncherz · 2021-07-31T06:33:45+00:00

But why do women hate women? Also why would men hate women? Other than incels. Any man who hates women isn't really a man at all. And I'm not talking about sexual preference. I mean feelings of animosity

sobrius · 2021-07-30T18:04:56+00:00

While a valid commentary, how is this a pussy pass denied? It is bloody granted, look at the upvote ratio of the OP.

The_Real_Kingpurest · 2021-07-30T21:48:59+00:00

There was a post on twox and it effectively said "we know it's not all men, but, we don't know which men, so we have to be careful around them all" with thousands of upvotes. Hear me out... we know it's not all muslims, but, we don't know which muslims, so we have to be careful around them all. Now obviously I do know hold this opinion but I'm sure this sub sees my point........

ArthurHaroldKaneJnr · 2021-07-31T01:59:22+00:00

That's a sweeping and blatantly untrue statement to say all men hate all women. For a start, I think we all realize we wouldn't even exist without them.

twopizzas · 2021-07-31T03:07:45+00:00

Feminism will destroy the west. Or visa versa. We are in a cold-war for the future of the world and I very much hope it becomes a hot one.

sampleCoin · 2021-07-31T04:41:12+00:00

r/Feminism speedrun when?

hesam_lovesgames · 2021-07-31T06:59:19+00:00

Dude same, i got banned cuz i commented on a post where op was complaining the media avoided the use of the word rape in a situation where it was applicable (and a man was the perpetrator) saying the folks at pussypassdenied have the same problem, so it seems like the media just does that. I got perma banned in 2 minutes!

Shadowglove · 2021-07-31T07:13:37+00:00

To see how much someone hate themselves is to look on how much they hate others.

TechnoVega · 2021-07-31T08:33:13+00:00

Wait...men hate women ??? 🤔

MamboFloof · 2021-07-31T12:34:37+00:00

Change it to be for race and she'd be bitching

Buhdumtssss · 2021-07-31T15:17:04+00:00

The amount of dry pussy in that sub rivals the Sahara

kmecha9 · 2021-08-04T18:43:34+00:00

The "difference" is generally any decent human being would take responsibility or feel regret unwarrantedly harming others. Just because someone's a jerk, doesn't mean they have to act out and be a bigger jerk or advocate to attack another innocent party simply because they are a different gender.

But apparently under the /feminism they want the opposite of equality. As they proudly confessed their ulterior motive in the quote. An abusive women can lead a life exploiting others, hate, discrimination, and violence so long as they scapegoat men for their own actions under the guise of "safety, and well-being." That's the mental gymnastics of a manipulative crybully with zero accountability.

That sub is banning people for pointing out the hypocrisy, or punishing others for mentioning that's not what equality or feminism should be about.

Nevek_Green · 2021-08-07T18:18:19+00:00

So if my hatred is based on actions taken against me I am good to be a royal ass?

lockonsmith · 2021-08-15T11:22:40+00:00

If men "systematically caused this problem" because od a direct hate for women, then that's a different discussion

But even if what they are saying is true, unless they can prove males do it against spite for women, it's a moot point

Correlation =/= causation

Just because these two things might be true, doesn't necessarily mean men do it so much out of spite than that they work for a company that does this to coworkers for example

2021-07-31T02:39:40+00:00

Behold the evils of Gender Revenge politics. Feminism is steeped in it. Sadly the men's rights movement has plenty enough of this problem too. That's what drove me to egalitarianism.

blanketedslate · 2021-07-31T04:37:34+00:00

I love women and I’m a man.

Somepony-Else · 2021-07-31T03:49:08+00:00

r/feminism if you condone hate of any kind you may ban me now because I want nothing to do with you… I absolutely support feminism, but what it’s been turned into is disappointing.

I am saying this based on OP statement that you banned him.

SsaucySam · 2021-07-30T20:24:24+00:00

Feminism went from being equal to men to getting more rights without the responsibilities.

itachididnothinwrong · 2021-07-30T17:49:10+00:00

Idk man, posting your own "clever comeback" is pretty cringy tbh.

lolomotif12 · 2021-07-30T18:59:12+00:00

It's a shit show

TheAtomak · 2021-07-31T01:39:04+00:00

What the fuck is a nuance?

2021-08-02T17:02:34+00:00

Well....they are half right at least. They forgot some men end up hating women for the same thing....

mathias235 · 2021-08-05T15:15:46+00:00

Should all just listen to wise master Yoda, anger leads to hate, and hate leads to suffering doesn't matter who holds it weather they be woman or man. Allowing that negative attitude to permeate your being will lead to nothing good.

MrHound325 · 2021-07-30T17:50:02+00:00

u/TendySupreme over here suckin his own dick

Redditmodss · 2021-07-30T23:36:53+00:00

Lol they're right you fucking cuckservatives incel losers lolololol. Die mad.

Title	The state of feminism, “we cannot handle equal blame for our problems.”
Author	TendySupreme
Upvotes	4427
Comments	237
Date	July 30, 2021 3:47 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PussyPassDenied
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