I'm having relationship trouble. My girlfriend has become emotionally distant, we are lacking an emotional connection. It doesn't fit in the typical red pill analysis: I work out, am outgoing, pass shit tests, don't supplicate, etc. I feel like I don't know how to talk to her to engage her emotionally. The last couple of times we went out she acted as if it was a complete chore. I used to be affectionate and playful with her, but as she pulled away, I wasn't going to chase, so our relationship is all day-to-day going through the motions now. Despite all of this I am sure she is not (yet) cheating. All the red pill advice for building attraction won't work here, I need advice on re-establishing intimacy.