He was a 12-year-old rape victim... and still had to pay child support.

RyansPutter · 2019-12-01T23:46:41+00:00

Feminists have long complained about loopholes in laws that allow rapists to gain visitation and custody rights. They are right about that - if a man forcibly rapes a woman and she becomes pregnant, he should never have any access to the child. Male rape victims having to pay child support is the flip side of the coin. I wonder when the NYT or WaPo will run an article about it.

Nobody13XIII · 2019-12-02T04:15:41+00:00

It's insane how many women can flat out just be pedophiles and rapists and it just gets overlooked cause they're women.

AbjectSociety · 2019-12-02T05:11:06+00:00

It's really scary that there seems to be a law that adult women can rape a child, get pregnant and then demand money from the child they raped.

And the judge is like "ya'z cool man"

jameseglavin4 · 2019-12-02T02:49:01+00:00

The use of the term “exploited” in this article continues to trivialize the rape it’s trying to bring attention to. Gross, call it what it is - rape.

Tmomp · 2019-12-02T02:54:15+00:00

Rape culture.

Institutionalized sexism hurting men and boys.

aranboy522 · 2019-12-02T05:10:26+00:00

I made a subreddit called r/malerapevictims where I want to raise awareness about situations such as these

mrtibbles32 · 2019-12-02T04:48:32+00:00

Daily reminder that all the regular child support rules apply here.

If someone hits him with a car and he cant work he's gonna go to jail because he cant afford to pay his rapist for the child he didnt want.

The rapist herself could break his legs with a crowbar and he'd still go to jail for not paying child support.

englishfury · 2019-12-02T04:15:05+00:00

" The Kansas Supreme Court ruled against him. The judgment stated that because Seyer initially consented to the sexual encounters and never told his parents what was happening, he was responsible for supporting the child."

a 12 cannot consent? wtf

2019-12-02T03:00:24+00:00

this is so messed up

MyDeathTherapy · 2019-12-02T04:17:32+00:00

I tried to talk to my mom about it and the first thing out of her mouth was 'She might have been a very childish 16-year old. That they both made wrong decisions. That he was lying when he said he didn't want it. That the true victim was the child.' And totally disregarded that a 12-year-old had to pay child support. She said to cut her some slack. Because 16-year-olds don't really understand either. It isn't so bad because they were close in age.

2019-12-02T10:25:49+00:00

This is assinine, a 12 y/o is a child nowhere near the age of consent, while at 16 she is the age of consent in a lot of states. Rape is rape, so much for equality... Shame on the courts and all who railroaded this poor boy and his family! This should've been fought all the way to the Supreme Court.

2019-12-02T03:56:53+00:00

Saved. Thank you for this!

Hansson2 · 2019-12-02T11:13:30+00:00

These so-called judges are really f*cked up people and can trash anyone's life with impunity. These people should be behind bars...this got to stop

jonnytechno · 2019-12-02T15:10:04+00:00

What's also crazy is that a pedophile gets to keep a baby produced from rape.... WTF

YashenTheVeganZombie · 2019-12-02T10:05:10+00:00

This is one of the most insane things I have ever read.

slayer5934 · 2019-12-02T12:38:00+00:00

The child has to pay child support, NEAT.

TheDrunkenChud · 2019-12-02T22:49:58+00:00

What the fuck is this part though:

34-year-old woman became pregnant after sexually exploiting a 15-year-old boy. He was also forced to pay child support, and then Deputy Attorney General Mary Roth alleged:

“I guess he thought he was a man then. Now, he prefers to be considered a child.”

Who fuck? Jesus that's toxic.

skgody · 2019-12-02T05:59:55+00:00

I think you shouldn’t pay for children you don’t see. Child support is theft.

NecroHexr · 2019-12-02T08:43:08+00:00

post this to r/nottheonion

TJ1933 · 2019-12-02T14:12:25+00:00

Is there a case citation or is the record silent? How does a minor have a legal status of obligor? Maybe bad or flawed legal prosecution? This is they type of thing that needs more attention at the state level. Disgusting outcome if true.

samutlgfx · 2019-12-02T15:49:38+00:00

I hate this clown world

Mackowatosc · 2019-12-02T17:38:58+00:00

Yeah because 12 year olds have income. Obviously.

Tkx421 · 2019-12-02T03:53:49+00:00

You know I'm gonna take a lot of shit for saying this but I have been privy to a lot of unknown shit about this world. Been around a lot of powerful people I wish I never met. When people(society) make such obviously illogical decisions like this I just have to wonder how much more proof I need to find that the world is under massive mind control. Overtly and covertly. Laugh at me all you want, call me insane and dismiss me, they are counting on it... I assure you.

Karissa36 · 2019-12-02T14:36:50+00:00

This is actually gender neutral. When an underage girl gets pregnant by an adult man she also still has a duty to support the child. Let's face it now that occurs with underage girls a heck of a lot more often. So who here thinks that the adult men in this situation should be solely 100 percent responsible for supporting the child for the next 18 years? Assume a 15 year old girl with a 21 year old boyfriend. She gets pregnant but manages to graduate from college and get a good job when the child is about 6 years old. Who here thinks that her income should not be included when calculating child support?

If it's good for the goose it is good for the gander. Get used to it. Also it looks very stupid for these posts to endlessly be recirculated here about these extremely few underage boy has to support his child cases WHEN IT LITERALLY HAPPENS TO UNDERAGE GIRLS ALL THE TIME.

Title	He was a 12-year-old rape victim... and still had to pay child support.
Author	PillBottleAdventurer
Upvotes	1027
Comments	89
Date	December 1, 2019 11:28 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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