Throwaway for privacy,
So I need advice from you lovely ladies.
I'm 22 and in my 4th year of university. My parents are really poor and I had to move to a small city to go to university. I barely even have enough to pay my tuition and live on credit cards really during the semester sometimes.
I get to do paid internships every 4 months. It's with my small income from my internships coupled with some odd jobs during the semester that I use to survive. I have a small 10 year old car. The only thing I've got going for me, is that I'm pretty ( I suppose)
I met a guy who just graduated university last year, he has a great stable job, his parents are from this city and he has a ton of hobbies that he's into. He plays baseball and basketball and takes trips. His parents are also rich. He's 25.
I'm really up for anything, as long as it's free, so most of my interests are basically connected to school and church. I don't play sports ( poor upbringing), but anytime church / school is having a sporting event, I sign up.
Anyway this successful man, wants to date me. I feel under qualified, so to speak. He's much more interesting than I am. I feel like I have nothing to add to the relationship.
I've never had a boyfriend before and most guys who have approached me, were usually dead-beats( unemployed, married, too old). My ideal partner would probably be a student, who's probably starting life with me. Not someone way ahead.
But this man i met, he's really caring and always offers to help ( especially when I was moving, he lifted the heavy boxes). He's handsome too! I want to try and make it work.
I guess my question is, do I pursue the relationship and if yes, how can I feel less under qualified. How do I stack up to him?. I'm a submissive woman, but I also want to keep him interested.
Tldr: feeling insecure about a potential partner, need help!
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