Hello Ladies. I'm 25 years old and my husband is 27. We have been together for 9 years, married 4. We have a great relationship. That said this happend yesterday:

I arrived early from college and I caught him, you know, touching himself in the living room. So he asked me to give him a blowjob (no big deal, we have done this before) so I started and he went from "hard" to "soft" in one min. Again, no big deal, this things happens right? Then he went to the bedroom and I was just there sitting on the sofa when I noticed that the Ipad was there and that my husband was watching porn. I was curious and I decided to watch it (this is not something he would be angry about). I wish I had not seen it. It was the most disgusting thing I ever seen. 32 min Hentai of a girl being raped be aliens, aliens dogs with tentaculos.

I'm angry, I'm sad, I do not understand how he might like to see dogs and then he gets soft in my mouth. I know he has the right to see what ever he wants, but... I just don't know what to do. Please help me.

UPDATE. I talked to him. He was ashamed and mad at himself for watching that thing. NOT because I finded out, but because he thinks this is wrong. He said that he wants to stop and that he can see how bad porn is for our life. I asked him what i could do to help him and he said that the change had to come from him, but he was glad that I offered my help. In the end I realised that I overreacted. He is a good men with a porn problem. I believe we are in a good place. Thank you all for the suport. :)