how to help husband find/swallow the red pill.

loneliness-inc · 2017-04-23T21:57:08+00:00

Look through Sadie's posting history. There's a post there called "a case for the greater beta". It may or may not fit what you desire in your husband, but it will certainly give you some food for thought on the topic.

Generally speaking, men aren't open for suggestions on how to improve unless they ask for it. Therefore, as good as the idea may be, you can't just offer him unsolicited advice. What you can do is speak to him and convince him to change through actions, not through words. Become the RPW wife you want to be, he'll get the message.

I haven't read the surrendered wife, but I hear that this issue is addressed there as well. In any case, Sadie can probably give you better advice on the matter.

crownoffeathers · 2017-04-24T00:05:50+00:00

You create a space where he feels comfortable to be himself. And you do this by loving him and letting him know he has your respect and acceptance.

This might not be the revolutionary advice you want and it might not lead to the husband of your fantasies, but it's more effective than telling him to "man up!"

We have the power to undermine our spouses in a million little ways: they bring home eggs from the grocery store and we roll our eyes and say they're the wrong brand. We see the tie they picked out and veto it for a "better" tie. Tiny things but they discourage him from expressing himself in other situations.

Loving and accepting our spouses as they are (and not for what they could become) is hard work, but hopefully, you have a whole lifetime to practice and will be loved and accepted in return.

[deleted] · 2017-04-24T02:28:36+00:00

TBH, you don't want him fully swallowing the red pill. there's a significant amount of the anger phase that the guy will go through, and he'll never see women the same way. that includes you.

Somemistakesweremade · 2017-04-24T01:59:21+00:00

Dangerous path. There are some truth in TRP, but do you really want him to internalise all the misogynist stuff? I had a husband, who had a lot of work to do, to become a captain. After TRP i have a husband who doesn't see value in commitment and exclusivity. Be careful.

radioactivities9 · 2017-04-23T20:46:09+00:00

What do you want from it?

tempintheeastbay · 2017-04-23T21:15:03+00:00

I think I'd start with RPW actions (loads of sidebar material on this). 1) it might provoke with reaction you want 2) if you still feel the need to show him RP stuff after that, he'll be more predisposed to like it since it's already yielding benefits for his relationship. I get the excitement to share RP with your husband for sure but not sure if sending him to TRP will have the intended effect.

ImpatientOptimist47 · 2017-04-24T09:03:49+00:00

This blog and its eBook would be perfect I think.

Title	how to help husband find/swallow the red pill.
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Date	April 23, 2017 8:42 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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