Is this what being Chad is like?

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March 10, 2017

Because this is such a power trip from a lifetime as an incel and I could get used to this:

23 y/o. 178cm. 72kg.

Been on TRP for 4 months. I lift, eat healthy, and sleep 7-8 hours... about 80% of the time.

Met up with my FWB yesterday. While we were together, she saw me:

  • Greet a kid wearing a t-shirt from my old high school. I offered to hook him up with a couple of people who are doing what he wants to do for some insight.

  • Greet an HB8 I'd met a couple years ago. I introduced them to each other. The HB8 commented I looked good, lost weight and seem to be doing well. I gave her my phone and she put in her number.

  • A former client said hello to me at the movies. We talked briefly.

Social proof? Check.

Dread? Check.

And to top it off, we walk into the movie and she starts getting touchy-feely. So, I take her scarf and cover her up.

Then, I open her belt & pants, and start fingering her for half an hour in a room with 200 people, all of us watching the movie like nothing's happening.

No resistance from her at all. Just silence, a few shudders, and a lot of wetness.

At that moment, it really sunk in that as the man, I could "do what you want^TM" and she'd follow along happily.

After the movie, this conversation came up:

Her: That was crazy.

Me: I know, right? Why did [spoiler thing] happen?

Her: No, I mean... what happened.

Me: Oh! But yeah, you know you liked it.

Her: I did.

Me: (teasing) And you look soooo innocent.

Her: Nooo! You make me so bad. I really am innocent. My friends once asked me if I was a virgin because I'm so innocent. Blablablah.

So, was I actually Chad for an evening yesterday?

Also, what's the recommended plan for that HB8? A former client tried hooking us up, but I was too much of a BP bitch to act on it. So, she was once into me and I'm guessing I've re-sparked that given yesterday. How do I act on it?

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Title Is this what being Chad is like?
Author kenpachitz
Upvotes 80
Comments 49
Date 10 March 2017 05:50 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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[–]50shadesofsigma102 points103 points  (7 children) | Copy

whatever you do do not drop this frame. The frame you have will inform every decision from now on.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (5 children) | Copy

I'm still confused about frame, even after reading up on it. What is this guys frame?

[–]Fulp_Piction34 points35 points  (3 children) | Copy

Frame is your emotional state. If you're happy as fuck and somebody tries to bother you (frame grab) you can change your state (break frame) or stay the same (hold frame).

Some say you can tell the size of a man by the size of the things that bother him, visavie how strong his frame is.

[–]TheStumblingWolf7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

It also goes the other way. You can, with practice, influence people to see and feel things your way for positive results that align with your wishes.

[–]All_Ads_Deceive0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Frame isn't an emotional state. It's a lifestyle and mindset you choose to live and you don't let anything choange you from that. Part of my frame is I don't let people disrespect me. If I stayed "happy" and took disrespect like a pussy, I entered their frame. If I shoot the disrespect down, I stated in my frame

[–]Fulp_Piction0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You do you man, but if we had a conversation and I'm trying to throw you off your game and you react in any way then I know I'm gonna succeed. For example if you shoot the 'disrespect' down, I just chuckle and say: "Woah man, chill. We're just trying to have some fun" - then give our company the 'this guys a bit odd' eyes and leave. The mistake is that you consider it disrespect in the first place, and by thinking that you have to defend yourself you're investing in the belief that I've already broken your frame. Don't take it so seriously. That's my take.

[–]third-eye-brown0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Your frame is how you decide your reality. Some people let the world tell them what is real. Some people decide what the world is, and make the world follow their own chosen reality. That's frame.

[–]mickey__0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

what frame?

[–][deleted] 52 points53 points  (3 children) | Copy

Never, fucking never drop this frame. NEVER

[–]silver-gun1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Your post implies frame isn't all about mindset. Reading TRP for a while, I'm still not sure what's included in the description of "frame".

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It is an abstract concept that covers mental outlook, mindset, and worldview.

It also can cover things like mood and emotional stability.

[–]third-eye-brown1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's how "unswayable" you are by external events. It's about mindset, but only a delusional fellow ignores reality entirely. It's about having the conviction to believe the world should be a certain way, and then making it that way.

[–]AyeAmScottishYaCunt33 points34 points  (0 children) | Copy

As it has already been said - this is your baseline now.

Remember yourself in that day, relive it, commit it to memory. This is you now. Anytime you feel yourself relapsing, getting overly emotional, regressing to old beta ways etc etc etc. Remember how you were on that day.

That is how you act. 24/7, 365.

[–]brinkleybuzz24 points25 points  (3 children) | Copy

You make me so bad. I really am innocent.

This is how you know when you have arrived ... when you make "good girls" do "bad" things.

Keep it going.

[–]hawkeaglejesus4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

when you make "good girls" do "bad" things.

There's no such thing as good girls, just girls that know how to wear the veil of innocence

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

But that song is one of my guilty pleasure songs

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

But that song is one of my guilty pleasure songs

[–]yayaja6710 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Burn this day into your memory forever, pull from it and draw from it in the future. This is who you are and were meant to be, everything else is just bad weather.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (7 children) | Copy

Me: I know, right? Why did [spoiler thing] happen?


[–]kenpachitz2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

I couldn't be assed to figure out that BB code just to mention the big thing at the end of the movie I was referring to.

And you guys deserve WAY better than getting movie spoilers in a FR/question.

Anybody who saw Logan knows what I'm talking about. lol

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

I was just laughing about how you were talking about the movie instead of fingering her.

[–]kenpachitz points points [recovered] | Copy

I was in full Chad mode. And I believe Chad wouldn't make a big deal of it.

If I had to borrow a quote, "To her, it was the most important sluttiest night of her life. To Chad, it was Tuesday."

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I know dude, it was smooth. That's why I lol'd. Good job.

[–]htbf0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Where are you borrowing the quote from ?

[–]kenpachitz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's a modified quote from Street Fighter that's a bit of a meme.

The main villain, M. Bison, basically ravaged the village of one of the fighters, Chun Li, when she was a little girl. This basically set her on the path of being a super kung fu cop.

I forget the context. But somewhere on her journey for justice, someone puts it into perspective how insignificant her plight is to the villain by saying, "To you, that was the most important day of your life. To Bison, it was Tuesday."

[–]rockmasterflex3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good on you to do this with a FWB.

It might not be obvious, but this could be a really, really, really bad idea to do with someone unfamiliar with you sexually. Like really bad.

Some people's fear response is to lock up. Is it physically pleasurable? Absolutely, but this can absolutely get you in trouble if she didn't want it, and in cases with those unfamiliar with you, she might not and could just be locking up out of fear (and embarassment that she would be "violated" in a public place.

Remember: it might be sexy and dominant, but always cover your ass.

[–]kenpachitz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Very good point.

Very, very, very good point.

I wouldn't do this to someone I don't have a good amount of history with.

And I completely wouldn't have gone there if she wasn't the one to start touching me suggestively, did so for quite a while, and didn't express any negative reaction as I escalated very, very, very gradually.

The touching started about 20 minutes into the movie. I did what I did from about an hour and 15 in. So, not as 0-100 as it might have sounded in the OP.

That said, I'll still have to firmly remember this is NOT something to do with anyone close to "new."

[–]sharkbrah1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

welcome to my life bro

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]mofono0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If you break the frame, you go MGTOW.

[–]1walawalawa0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well done. You're well on your way to becoming that Alpha male. DO NOT BACKSLIDE.

It will become challenging because it will not always be this easy or fun.

You'll encounter girls who resist (shit-test) resent (challenge your frame) or try to otherwise destabilize you: Cluster B types who seem to fall under your magical spell and once they feel you're hooked suddenly start reversing the roles to get you chasing.

The Red Pill is a mindset. That mindset is as you described. Now you're floating because you realize it's a kind of "superpower".

Once you fully adapt it, it will become who you are. From here on in, you will be in charge. Don't backslide.

It's too easy to be challenged by white knights, orbiters, betas who see you as the "asshole" the chauvinist, misogynist...

Make no mistake...despite what so many girls may say publicly, they want a strong guy who keeps them in line.

Keeping them in line means always being willing to walk away.

The ultimate shit test is where they sabotage the relationship with something so outrageous (cheating?) or something so indefensible or unforgiveable you have to hard next.

Then they will challenge that by trying to get back into your life.

Frame about, get your mindset firm and clear.

[–]Il128 points points [recovered] | Copy

Getting hit on several times a day. Even when you are clearly busy or with someone.

Unsolicited selfie porn. Texting barrages (the anxiety driven ones are the worst) at any time day or night that can go on for hours. Having to actually use your phones do not disturb function. Having women working to get around this DND with other numbers (Sorry ladies, it also blocks unknown numbers). And seeing 30 messages blocked.

Women acting nuts at stop lights trying to get your attention.


Women and men who think you owe them your time and who get pissed when you don't give it to them.

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

and you have no field reports, why?

[–]shadexs552 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's like next level Chad.

[–]All_Ads_Deceive0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Not really. Women worship and chase men in the top 10%. It's also not hard to achieve that. The average guy is a lazy entitled beta pussy

[–]sassypaella3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not even knowing what the thread is about.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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