Those that prefer LTR's - do you have a good checklist for a suitable partner?

RedSkeller · 2017-03-13T14:48:35+00:00

Just wanted to congratulate you on finding the one woman who wasn't on social media. I've never been more envious.

red-thorns-bleed · 2017-03-13T13:03:05+00:00

You can get all the bullets in the checklist, but ultimately it's about you.

From what I see you have a general idea of what you want. From now on just have fun, that's exactly what LTR's, plates, etc are for.

The only thing to watch out is for when shit hits the fan you are prepared to deal with it. Stick to your guns and be ready to leave.

So basically, you are all that you should be 'looking for' now.

partdopy1 · 2017-03-13T17:46:56+00:00

Only 1 check list item needed boyo --

-- Improves my quality of life by being around

This one encompasses all of yours and pretty much anything else you can think of. Annoying social media usage? Not improving my qol. Can't cook as well as me? Not improving my qol. Doesn't clean my humble abode? etc...

GainzdalfTheWhey · 2017-03-13T18:37:46+00:00

Found one but she was 12 years my senior. Why don't you have a age requirement?

kranos33 · 2017-03-13T22:43:25+00:00

OP, your GF sounds exactly like my ex.

She was all sweet and smart too boot, but here what happened:

When she met me, she was dating somebody else. She fucked me for about 3 months before breaking up with the other dude. I didn't know about this at all at the time. 3 months is not branch switching, but more straight out cheating (her past bf. traveled a lot for work, so she needed some company)
When she broke up with me, she had lined up another guy right away (branch swinging).
Introverted Girls like that can't stand being alone for too long as they have few friends, and if you are traveling for more than few weeks, they will find another dick to hop to.

Don't want to ruin your Disney dream, but mine turned into a nightmare. (it was right about the time that I started reading TRP, so I started to get a gist on what was happening. Unfortunately I still ended up liking her a lot, and the break up process was not easy.

I wish I had internalized TRP before I met her. It would have been good antidote to these type of women's games.

P.s. Also about the "No Social Media Account" that is revered so much around here. I was talking to a friend of mine (female) about this, and she was telling me that some of the biggest sluts/branch switchers keep a low social profile for a reason. They don't want to advertise their statuses, so it gives them freedom to fuck around without social repercussions.

Gucci_sauce_ · 2017-03-13T12:58:13+00:00

Only thing to watch for is that she does not become dependent on you. Make sure she stays in the workforce, and can provide for herself if your were not there.

Be her rock, don't fall too beta.

You do you, if you prefer LTR that's up to you don't let anyone else tell you what you should do. Even if TRP doesn't recommend.

AwakenedSovereign · 2017-03-13T17:40:48+00:00

She sounds like a catch. If your relationship was newer I would be advising you to check beneath all the rocks and make sure it's not an act, but you seem like a smart dude and thus your account of her character is reasonable.

Just don't get lost in the woods. Your path. She will choose to join you on it every day, or not.

Besides that you have nothing to fear. Keep yourself strong. Keep your wits about you. Doesn't matter how perfect she is or how well you play the game, it can all fall apart at a moment's notice. Build your happiness in such a way that it can include her but does not rely on her.

Do this, and paradoxically, you will invoke the best probability of a positive outcome for your relationship.

Mildly_Sociopathic · 2017-03-13T17:36:49+00:00

but not too attractive

The fuck?

mcr00sterdota · 2017-03-14T04:01:08+00:00

-Low N count

Can be lied about

-Attractive but not too attractive (solid 8/10). Girl-next-door look

Fair enough most 10s have more problems

-Very introverted, prefers staying in and reading a book than going out

All girls go out

-Asks my permission to do anything. Isn't too clingy with me.

Isn't asking for permission to do anything kind of clingy? I mean she should tell you what she's doing but you don't own her.

-Naturally submissive

Just for you or to every guy?

-Religious background (not go to church every Sunday religious, but very good for morals / values).

Meh

-Feminine (enjoys cooking, beauty / makeup, fashion)

Agreed, no male wants to date another male unless they are gay

-Has a good job

As long as this doesn't give her too much of an upper hand

-Comes from a good background. Parents happily married for 25 years, entire family is "upper middle class"

Good values, fair enough

-High libido / open in bed

Agreed

-Minimal shit tests.. one every few weeks. Mostly comfort tests at this point

Agreed

-Doesn't use social media

Good luck

FrameWalker · 2017-03-13T16:09:49+00:00

Looks good to me. Keep lifting. Focus on yourself first. IE if she's giving you shit and you want to be a stronger leader int he relationship don't put energy into combatting her shit tests, put energy into making yourself more attractive.

Terdmuffin · 2017-03-13T17:31:21+00:00

Be careful not to see things through Rose colored glasses. It's easy to become complacent and overlook things that in a new relationship you wouldn't put up for.

nastynickdr · 2017-03-13T18:35:52+00:00

As long as you dont turn into a beta schlub and always keep improving yourself and maintain yourself as the prize you should be fine. Remember that you can only control you. She might one day decide she wants to hop on the CC / break up with you / become a feminist / cheat on you etc, so you have to always be willing to walk. She seems like a fine lad but dont pedestalize her or things go to shit. Its also common that the woman will not show her "true final form" until she has her commitment secured (married / kids), then the nagging starts, sex declines, suddenly she doesnt enjoy doing the things you enjoy and she loved doing, etc.

As for green/red flags:

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3kgbn7/the_lengthy_red_flags_warning_flags_green_flags/

900PercentSaltIntake · 2017-03-13T19:19:16+00:00

I want kids some day and I'll need to find a suitable partner to do so.

-Has a good job

You will want your future mother of your children to stay at home with your kids until they are at least 7 years old.

askmrcia · 2017-03-13T20:52:24+00:00

Attractive but not too attractive (solid 8/10)

That's considered too attractive.

MrSnarf26 · 2017-03-14T06:51:08+00:00

There are very very few women in 2017 that I would even think about having children with. That being said this list looks good. Might want to introduce her to social media before you get married and see how she handles it. I don't think you would want her to try social media after marriage and then find out she loves male attention.

Title	Those that prefer LTR's - do you have a good checklist for a suitable partner?
Author	AskTrpThrowaww
Upvotes	27
Comments	32
Date	March 13, 2017 12:35 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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