Abundance mentality

throw162534 · 2017-04-04T19:28:20+00:00

ELI5 version

Lack of Abundance:

You're really hungry and you have one sandwich. You lose the sandwich and get really sad. You're searching desperately for that sandwich, because it's all you have to eat.

Abundance:

You have 5 sandwiches. You lose one sandwich, but it's no big deal. You still have 4 other sandwiches. You're always looking for more sandwiches so even if you lose all of them, chances are you'll find some more fairly quickly.

NothingIsPermanent64 · 2017-04-04T17:43:17+00:00

It's the confidence and feeling you get from having options.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-04-04T22:44:27+00:00

It's about knowing that you always have other options. Would u pay $430 for a gallon of milk, when u know you can easily get one for $2.99 elsewhere.

Women like to unnecessarily raise the price of pussy to you, just to see if they're you're only source. Don't try too hard for pussy at inflated prices. Base price pussy is available elsewhere, shop around.

Phiffuflaver · 2017-04-04T19:13:36+00:00

You don't care if this bitch wants to fuck you or not, because there are hundreds of them waiting in line just for you

seattleron · 2017-04-04T19:44:53+00:00

When you internalize that it's a numbers game, that you can ALWAYS get a new chick, this one is noThing special, and replacing her isn't that big if a deal.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-04-04T19:48:43+00:00

You may find this to be useful: Abundance Mentality - Why It's Good For You

Snazzy_Serval · 2017-04-04T19:45:13+00:00

The true abundance mentality is the way of mind you have when you are living a life of abundance.

In regards to women, abundance mentality happens when you have at least two girls that you are sleeping with. If one girl decides to take away the sex, you don't care because you have another girl that is meeting your needs met.

If you only have one girl, then you are not living in abundance because if she leaves, then you have nothing.

Abundance mentality does not work if you aren't actually living in abundance.

ravenhiss · 2017-04-04T22:46:15+00:00

Abundance mentality is realising that there are opportunities everywhere. Beta boys rue missed opportunities and overthink their next opportunity. Abundance men see those opportunities, and the more confident of us have learned how to take those opportunities. The less confident of us are still learning and need more XP to level up.

walawalawa · 2017-04-05T15:49:05+00:00

It's this: you game a girl...she shit tests and then does the "Why should I go out with you?" variation of the shit test.

Having an abundance mentality would prompt you to immediately stop all contact until SHE started chasing. The "mentality" part is important. You would believe that you didn't have to qualify yourself to THIS girl because you have others...or could get someone better because...YOU'RE THE PRIZE.

Example #2: Girl breaks up with you as happened to be...before very important event she helped to plan....I stop calling her because...I have other plans, other friends and other girls occupying my time that week. She panics because EVERY guy she's pull this stunt on (leaving before an important event) always chases.

The "Mentality" part is the lack of dread or fear of "losing" someone because you believe in yourself and your own ability to get more. Or you have 2-3 other plates on the go who treat you better than the one you're having the most problems with....so you opt out...you ghost because you KNOW you don't really need her because other girls don't act that way to you

50shadesofsigma · 2017-04-04T17:43:03+00:00

think of the girl in your circle who you really want to fuck. she's really hot and you go on a date with her and getting to know each other. now imagine she fucks your best friend who knows how you feel about her, on a whim (drunk or otherwise). AM is forgiving them both and moving on to the next one without a single beta thought in your head.

Anayalata · 2017-04-04T19:50:04+00:00

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Title	Abundance mentality
Author	thatguyfromchi
Upvotes	14
Comments	18
Date	April 4, 2017 5:28 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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