I asked a woman what qualities she's looking for in a guy. Never let a woman emasculate you, fellas.

feedmecarrots · 2017-06-20T19:43:07+00:00

I once asked. It seems they always move the goalposts to exclude me.

MagicTampon · 2017-06-20T23:30:35+00:00

KorvisKhan · 2017-06-20T18:55:33+00:00

http://mpcdot.com/forums/topic/8697-consent-morality-as-social-neglect/page__st__20#entry249297

I think men have been the most directly harmed by the forces at work on us. Cultural marxism and technology and how those things relate. I have an IRL friend in his early 30s whose life looks almost too good to believe. He really is handsome, fit, smart, with a very high-powered job. He is also a really nice guy. He virtue signaled to me about the whole Caitlyn Jenner thing and I responded with--actually--because I don't want pervs in my bathroom or locker room or to be pushed out of public life. He immediately dropped the socially conscious veil. Another time he was complaining because at the time he was single and wanting not to be about how everyone assumes that he is just 'out banging chicks every night' and that is far from the case and he didn't want to. When I said, "I believe you. Men are sexually vulnerable in a way that women never can understand." He actually cried a little because he was so not used to men being acknowledged as people. My point is that if someone who is as fortunate as my friend thinks the respectable default is to devalue masculinity; this problem is not individual. It is cultural phenomena.

My boyfriend, who is older, and from an eclectic non-pozzed background went to work on friend. BF likes to shout things like "Stop being such a wimp!" but is also a caring person who validates masculinity. Lo and behold I hardly ever see said friend anymore because he is engaged to a beautiful girl (9 years younger and yes M. that is okay). There has always been a strong man within M. but he didn't have permission to express it. The constant cultural attack on masculinity is the basis for our current magical cesspool. A lot of this stuff is NOT intuitive as in etiquette- and the vacuum is being filled by people like Roosh or Heartshit...

So I am going to disagree with the idea that young men don't need advice. I would say much broader than dating advice they need mentorship. They have grown-up for the most part under constant attack. Young men have also always been the vanguard that protects societies. The cultural attack on them leaves every person vulnerable. Our culture has failed young men and anyone that has any capacity to help them reclaim their natural place in the world should exercise that.

2017-06-21T02:00:45+00:00

A lot of women are born that way but a lady is rarer than fucking gold these days.

tharkyllinus · 2017-06-21T10:16:55+00:00

Had a young woman whose car had just broke down honk her horn at me a tell me to come push her car out of the way... I turnned my head and walked on. She sat there for about an hour some other lady pushed her car bumper to bumper.

willthesane · 2017-06-22T03:45:52+00:00

I'm going to help everyone with what you need to do to be a man.

you must be swift as the coursing river with all the force of a great typhoon, with all the strength of a raging fire, and mysterious as the darkside of the moon.

come on guys it isn't hard. :)

SworntotheDeath · 2017-06-21T01:47:42+00:00

If women get to decide what makes a real man, should men decide what...?

No, that would be sexist.

On the real, though, if you have a penis, you're a man, and even that is debatable.

UDT22 · 2017-06-21T05:08:38+00:00

I can only be me for better or worse

double-happiness · 2017-06-21T14:28:35+00:00

I wouldn't really have responded to that at all. I would have just changed the conversation / talked about something else / got her to tell me what she was going to do for me, etc. Avoid qualifying yourself. Aim to have women qualify themselves to you, if anything.

There's no context shown, but it appears like she was giving you a 'shopping list' of what she was looking for, which is fine in some ways, but a bit of a 'danger zone' in others.

thesquataholic · 2017-06-21T16:00:48+00:00

Just curious, if the patriarchy is real, then why do men do most of the approaching? Why do men make the first moves most of the time? Why is it women that have the most opportunities in the dating scene?

dacracot · 2017-06-21T20:24:15+00:00

Response to "someone that can be a man"... "Well, biologically I'm definitely a man, but you probably mean more than that. Give me an example, please."

Cacc1 · 2017-06-21T18:03:09+00:00

Just because you're a male doesn't make you a man... You're a good example. That text you sent just let her know that you feel like a victim, and that you don't have much romantic success with the opposite sex.

You may think you "showed her", but what sis you accomplish? Absolutely nothing.

Title	I asked a woman what qualities she's looking for in a guy. Never let a woman emasculate you, fellas.
Author	KorvisKhan
Upvotes	128
Comments	48
Date	June 20, 2017 6:39 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/6ig17c/i_asked_a_woman_what_qualities_shes_looking_for/
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