Anti Feminist young woman living in a (very) blue state... my take on things.

v573v · 2016-06-25T16:58:39+00:00

make sure women always feel safe.

Here is the problem.

Is that a reasonable demand for anyone to make of another person?

I demand that you make me feel safe!

I demand that you do something about my feelings!

How did we get here? How did we go from brave women fighting for their place in the world into cowardly women placing unrealistic obligations and demands on everybody around them? How did we go from strong women demanding their human rights into weak women demanding more than the same rights everyone else has?

civilsaint · 2016-06-25T16:48:44+00:00

"we need to work together to make sure women always feel safe. This is EVERYONES problem"

Sounds like a rallying cry for the Brown Shirts.

Not many men are sexually assaulted. But EVERY WOMAN has a story

According to the CDC and FBI, 40% of sexual offenses are committed by women, but women account for only 6% of arrests.

As a man, I can tell you, nearly EVERY man has a story of their junk getting grabbed or a girl trying to make them get a boner by rubbing against them. Guys just aren't conditioned to think of this as a crime.

What statements like the one above are doing are trying to condition women to think everything is rape, so that they can demonize all men or rapists (these words can be used interchangeably).

Thanks for posting. I hope you keep the throwaway and use it more often. Most of us are using throwaways here :)

Unconfidence · 2016-06-25T16:16:36+00:00

Yeah, I used to get outright hit on by older ladies at my workplace. I was like 22 at the time, and these women were in their 40's-50's. I'd get comments about my butt, or how I should groom myself a certain way because I'd look better, etc. Men definitely get sexually harassed, and if we responded the way many women do we'd get arrested.

Thing is, women are not taught some of the things men are taught. When a boy hits someone, he is scolded sternly (in most cases) and made to feel that it is not okay to hit people. We try to do that with girls, but it's hard for even the best parents to override the barrage of media showing women hitting men, or each other, with little repercussion. As a result, women grow up believing the truth, that there is significantly less social stigma around them being physically violent than there is around a man doing the same. I mean, hell, even if another man were to grab my butt on a train, if I turned around and beat him up for it, I'd be labeled a homophobic hate crime, not me defending myself.

Each of these problems seems to be the result of about a thousand different social problems stacked on top of one another.

2016-06-25T16:39:37+00:00

Let me help you out with a little, possibly unnecessary explanation.

I even had someone tell me I "was only saying what I was saying to attract attention from men" LOLLLLLLL.

Of course. Anything that challenges the feminist agenda will be attacked by feminists.

I'm a fucking adult. I can think for myself. To assume otherwise is laughable.

You can, and that's great. A remarkable number of feminists can't. Feminists project their views and opinions onto others constantly. It's why they think and expect all or most women to side with them. They're very hive-mind oriented.

More sexism poured in by saying "woman's safety is more important than the feelings of precious man babies". wut. I never said a woman shouldn't feel safe.

No, you didn't say a woman shouldn't feel safe. However, any defense of men or statement that men shouldn't be treated in the way the feminists propose harms feminist feelings and that makes them feel unsafe. Feminists believe women should feel and be safe regardless of what they do or say or who they associate with. The feminist view is that women should feel good and safe and happy and powerful at all times.

All I was saying was if the roles were reversed, feminists would go crazy.

And you're absolutely right. Feminists would go and have gone crazy when a man has dared defend himself against a physical assault from a woman. It's not about equality. It's about picking a side based on identity and then remaining utterly loyal to that side.

Something I think you've figured out but haven't explicitly stated in your post: Feminism isn't an equality movement. It's a female empowerment and superiority movement.

I hope that helps with your understanding. Please ignore if you already understood all of this.

TheRavenousRabbit · 2016-06-25T20:13:54+00:00

I was sexually abused by a female family member for a decade. You wouldn't believe how often people try to excuse that persons behavior the moment they hear about it.

I've heard people call it "Motherly love" in a completely unironic fashion.

Mens-Advocate · 2016-06-25T20:04:26+00:00

The context of the video was basically women on public transportation beating the shit out of men that allegedly sexually assaulted them/catcalled them/etc. It was pretty brutal.

OP is right in many ways. Assault is a felony. Catcalling is a matter of taste and decorum. Failure to distinguish between the two is an atrocity. And vigilantism in any form is illegal and an atrocity.

OP may also be interested in the several videos of social experiments, acting out the very inversions she suggests: men harassing women, women harassing men. In the former, male bystanders attack the male harasser; in the latter, neither male nor female bystanders give any help to the harassed male. Just search for social experiment gender on Google or YouTube.

HotDealsInTexas · 2016-06-25T21:24:48+00:00

While I did have people who agreed with me, I had many people attacking me. Calling me a moron, saying "this is a WOMANS video!!!! Go make one about men if you want!!!" (oh i'm sorry I thought feminism was about equality).

The correct response to this is: "It became a men's video when it was about men being beaten."

I even had someone tell me I "was only saying what I was saying to attract attention from men" LOLLLLLLL. I'm a fucking adult. I can think for myself. To assume otherwise is laughable. My boyfriend happens to agree with me on my stance, however, I've met many men that don't..

Remember: Feminists have no problem pushing "Patriarchal" gender roles and stereotypes like women having no agency when it benefits them, and will happily turn their backs on any woman who doesn't uphold the narrative.

2016-06-25T18:54:09+00:00

I actually saw your comment on that video. You got absolutely dogpiled.

fourthwallcrisis · 2016-06-25T21:59:12+00:00

Thanks so much for your support. It means a lot when people, especially women, recognise the issues we have.

Aesp9 · 2016-06-25T22:37:03+00:00

Yeah I've been catcalled and yeah it's immature, but I roll my eyes (sometimes give the finger) and move on with my day. Like it really isn't a big deal........

Oh my god thank you it isn't just me. I was wondering why so many modern feminists made a big deal about it. On one hand, I don't want to make assumptions about something I've experienced, but on the other... it's not proof of "rape culture", it's just people being immature. Nothing new on that front.

cld8 · 2016-06-26T00:31:39+00:00

Thanks for making this post to Facebook. A lot of times, men are afraid to speak up against radical feminists, for fear of being ostracized by society. Women, however, can freely discuss these issues, so speaking up really helps.

newharddrive · 2016-06-26T01:48:38+00:00

Women want equal rights, which is good. But, they do not want the responsibilities that come with those rights.

revenjack · 2016-06-25T21:11:32+00:00

Hmm.. my brother is a bodybuilder and he gets sexualized alot. He also gets sexual harassment from females touching his arms legs and sometimes chest. Which he never gave permission.

Once he forced me into his gym, im not fat but he wants me built like him, and these girls come over and start asking my brother for tips. (He kinda made a face ) and than once the chick touched my brother arms to feel how big it was he grabbed her hand and took it off. And asked her not to touch him. Nicely i may add. She freaked called asked him if he was gay and from there my brother just walked away. He later tells me it happens alot. And now it's kinda bother some. So yeah i get it

Blutarg · 2016-06-26T00:09:49+00:00

Good for you! You're a lot more aware of things than I was at 21. Don't ever stop taking satisfaction from helping people; that's what our world needs.

2016-06-26T04:35:06+00:00

What bothers me most about feminism is the fact my wife identifies as a feminist. Shes one of the good ones though, ive tried and tried to show her how toxic that community is but she never sees it. I for one will only advocate equality period and not support such a hateful movement, it doesnt even do anything for womens rights either its never achieved anything,

herewegoaga1n · 2016-06-26T09:57:50+00:00

People are fucking crazy. That's the stance I've grown to accept as people got less intelligent over the decades. I treat them all as mental patients these days.

Title	Anti Feminist young woman living in a (very) blue state... my take on things.
Author	womanforallrights21
Upvotes	216
Comments	28
Date	June 25, 2016 3:16 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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