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Men Have No Interest in Dating Women Who Act Like “Men” and “Embrace Feminism!”

cassalata

April 30, 2016
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Title Men Have No Interest in Dating Women Who Act Like “Men” and “Embrace Feminism!”
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cassalata

Upvotes 5
Comments 44
Date April 30, 2016 11:15 PM UTC
(10 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/4h6p57/men_have_no_interest_in_dating_women_who_act_like/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/men-have-no-interest-in-dating-women-who-act-like.950513
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Comments

[–]garglemesh42 19 points20 points21 points 10 years ago* (19 children) | Copy Link

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What is this?

[–]omegaphallic 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

i agree, this guy sounds more like a socon then a MRA. I have no problem with a women who is successful, educated, and makes lots of money, I feel no need to compete with her.

I have a problem with women who act violently towards men, nag, and are too controlling.

[–]IvanLu 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What's a socon?

[–]omegaphallic 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Social Conservitives who think they're entitle to tell the rest of us how to live.

[–]Scarbane 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

right? If it were a fact, it would be on Wikipedia.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 10 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

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What is this?

[–]Yeah_Nopes 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's bullshit because it's always been women are that are concerned with the success of their partner. It's not men that aren't interested in women that are more successful than themselves, it's women that are figuratively blind when it comes men that are less successful than themselves.

It's bullshit because the majority of men couldn't care less how successful a woman is, in fact many men would be thrilled to have a successful partner rather than someone they have to support.

There only being 5 articles by a single author on that site I can't really make a good evaluation, but based on the name pf the author (PastorRich), and the views espoused in that particular article, my best guess is that he's a Religious Tradcon. While I think the more people involved in men's rights, the better, I take everything that comes from that viewpoint with a grain of salt. Religious Tradcons generally support men's rights more on the basis of making the plantation palatable again, rather than men being human beings deserving of not being shit on.

[–]mrheh -3 points-2 points-1 points 10 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Maybe for you personally.

[–]civilsaint 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

I know lots of men to whom you could say 'for you personally' to in this case, myself included.

There are some men who don't feel this way, but the article is making an untrue generalization.

[+]mrheh -9 points-8 points-7 points 10 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Most men do not want to be dominated by their women, cuck.

[–]civilsaint 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

What?

Would you feel inadequate if your wife/gf made more than you?

[–]mrheh -5 points-4 points-3 points 10 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Ugh, good luck dude.

[–]civilsaint 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Was that a 'yes'. I'm confused as to what the issue is here. More money is better than less money. We get a divorce and fuck it, I get alimony. Or at least I don't have to worry about paying it.

[–]mrheh -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

It means I'm arguing online with a teenager.

[–]civilsaint 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Still didn't answer it. Strange.

[–]mrheh -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

We get a divorce and fuck it, I get alimony.

You're a child.

[–]shadowboxer47 -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, way to flaunt your weakness and fears, buddy.

[–]Juan_Golt 9 points10 points11 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Is this a troll post? First half of the article is talking about how women and useless mooches, second half of the article talking about how women shouldn't complete with men as providers. Which is it?

It doesn't matter in either instance. I have zero problem with women's behavior or choices. They can act however they like.

[–]icecow 13 points14 points15 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They don't just act like 'men' they act like a certain asshole man that other men don't like either. The type of men that act like everyone else in the room is beneath them, take half-baked stances and act like that's 'how it is', and other such traits.

[–]Brodusgus 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Some people don't like to date crazy

[–]fourthwallcrisis 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Heh, I'll have to mention this to my wife. She'll get a kick out of it, then we'll play video games and drink beer after the gym.

[–]HotSauciness 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Okay OP, I'll bite: What does it mean to "act like a man" anyway, and what is your source that men have no interest in those women?

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 10 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

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What is this?

[–]HotSauciness 8 points9 points10 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

So you think all men want is a docile woman who stays in the kitchen? I think you're on the wrong sub, /r/TheRedPill is that way

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

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What is this?

[–]Pornography_saves_li 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

SJWs cant accept that reality.

[–]mwobuddy 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

When men don't act like men, they're chastised for being cry babies, or man childs, or being lazy, etc. depending on how they're acting unmanly.

Feminists often cry about men not acting like men, while claiming people should be free from gender roles. This is called equivocation.

The reality is that the family unit being broken up is what allowed us to get to this point. If men still had father figures that taught them "how it is" rather than being cast adrift into a self esteem eating world of telling men they're scum unless they conform, I think a lot more guys would have laughed at second wave feminism when it started overreaching.

Men need to do an en masse exodus from the dating scene of women who won't act the way men desire them to. It will be considered cruel and sexist no matter what men do, even if what men do is stop interacting with women who don't live up to their expectation and LEAVE THEM ALONE.

Women still cry over that, because they're thinking that will bring men back to marriage rather than banging sluts.

If sluts are your competition, then what can you give a man that will encourage him to marry you? If a man wanting a more feminine woman is your competition, how do you change?

I see so much "garbage" about men if you don't have a girl and you're foreveralone.

Its your fault

If you can't attract a girl, something is wrong with you.

What have you done to change how you interact with them so they'll like you?

Stop crying, this is why no woman wants to date/fuck you.

Etc. When men complain, it is always something they must change about themselves. When women complain, it is always something men must change about themselves. The sooner people see it for what it is (trying solely to placate women's desires by changing ourselves) the sooner men will probably be glad to be foreveralone in lieu of hooking up with soul sucking harpies.

If you have to sacrifice yourself to be accepted, you're probably not considered to have much human value to the people accepting you.

[–]HotSauciness 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I think a lot more guys would have laughed at second wave feminism when it started overreaching.

Second wave feminism started overreaching when they opposed father's rights activists fighting for equal custody, because second wave feminists thought mothers were naturally better parents. So you believe that if we had stuck to traditional gender roles, guys would have laughed at second wave feminism when they fought to preserve traditional gender roles? That doesn't make sense

[–]mwobuddy 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Second wave feminism started overreaching when they opposed father's rights activists fighting for equal custody, because second wave feminists thought mothers were naturally better parents.

Now you're confusing. Are you agreeing or not?

So you believe that if we had stuck to traditional gender roles, guys would have laughed at second wave feminism when they fought to preserve traditional gender roles?

[+][deleted] 10 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

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[–]mwobuddy -2 points-1 points0 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

So what you're saying is that when men do want this type of woman, that type of man's personal desires don't matter because it doesn't conform to your narrative of how things should be?

[+][deleted] 10 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

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[–]mwobuddy 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

The article wasn't saying "all men" either.

[+][deleted] 10 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Pornography_saves_li -2 points-1 points0 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I think the point was your obvious disdain for certain viewpoints on relationships.

[+][deleted] 10 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]Pornography_saves_li -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Uh, yeah. Sure.

[–]civilsaint 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I won't date a feminist, but I agree that online dating has become shit. If I want to donate a dinner, I'd rather help out a homeless person than have to roll the dice on having to listen to a potential wacko like this lady for 2 hours.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

This one's easy -- don't do dinner dates.

[–]civilsaint 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

So, just Netflix and chill?

Or, just revert back to meeting women through friends or common interests.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It's pretty solid online dating advice these days: just meet somewhere that doesn't require a big time or money investment.

[–]civilsaint 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's like finding a unicorn!

[–]Pornography_saves_li 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No. Thats like dating like a modern man. Straight up, never 'wine and dine' a woman until she has had your dick in her mouth. And no, I am not joking.

[–]Ithelda 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men do not want to date or marry a woman who he has to outcompete, outperform and out earn the woman in his life

Did I miss something? Why does dating/ marrying an educated woman with a job equate to competing with her? When did the woman say she wanted it to be a competition? How is this automatically threatening to a man, unless the woman makes it threatening?

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