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[–]IronJohnKwando11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
need context
[–]notyourfathersfather2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Sorry, I was ignoring this girl, not liking her social media all that, and got that text.
[–]IronJohnKwando13 points14 points15 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
got it. Are you banging her? I'd just respond "furious. but I'll let you make it up to me"
[–]jb_trp2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ahhh. The games we play. Why are you ignoring her?
Look, you should be doing cool shit, having a fulfilling and happy life, talking to other girls, and be so busy and content that you don't have to pretend to ignore some girl. If you're not doing that, fix your life.
[–]sixseven891 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Huh"
[–]cptgoatsack-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd just ignore the question completely and log off whatever app I was using.
[–]Builtspill 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Remember, women would rather you hate them than ignore them. They WANT you to be mad at them, because it shows that you care and it relieves their constant boredom.
Women love to feel all emotions, regardless of whether they're good or bad emotions. It's the same way a dog loves to smell all smells, even if it's garbage or shit on the floor.
The best thing you can do is agree or amplify. "I'm furious. You better bring me that ass tonight or it'll only get worse."
[–]empatheticapathetic1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What? What about being aloof and indifferent. What the fuck are you talking about?
It's supposed to be said sarcastically. Just a suggestion.
[–]empatheticapathetic0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don’t hate them if you’re saying it sarcastically then. You’ve probably just used the wrong words to describe the concept.
[–]3chazthundergut4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Furious"
[–]purplefidgetmidget3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
As other user says, need context.
I'm not sure I can word this right but I'll have a go anyway:
One tip for people is that never getting mad with a girl is beta behaviour, it is supplication. Ever read about those domestic violence incidents where she lashes out and the guy was just trying to be nice, possibly confused or upset that he can't seem to please her? It's usually a shit test because she wants you to get mad at her to prove you're a man. She wants you to stop supplicating and be dominant. This is the book No More Mr Nice Guy 101.
Say she fucks up, does something inappropriate, for example, borrows something without asking and breaks it. If I'm honest, I rarely get mad. It takes a LOT to get me mad. Internally I'll be thinking ah well, she shouldn't have done that but what can you do eh? But externally I'll be (acting) angry she disobeyed and she will fear my reaction. She'll be ten times more supplicant to me because I've reminded her that I am a man. She'll respect the boundaries more, and she'll be extra nice to me.
It's healthy to express your true emotions (and in my case since I'm just so chill about certain things, to be a little bit psychopathic and express the emotions that you should have if you were less chill).
[–]RedPilledRoaster4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
Not true at all. Instead of getting mad, you go radio silent on her ass and go fuck other girls/create dread. Why would you want to be pissed off? Don’t know about you, but I’m trying to have a good time.
[–]aspdrm5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that dudes basically describing how to break frame 101
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
He’s not actually mad, just acts that way so his chick understands what she can and can’t do. If you aren’t in a relationship tho then yeah go ahead and go radio silent, it’ll work just as well.
[–]RedPilledRoaster0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
The chick will understand when you’re out fucking broads for 3 days and she has no idea where you are. Even better if she sees you with a girl somehow.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Maybe, but it’s also just as likely she gets turned off and the plate breaks.
Everyone on here is a huge fan of dread game yet never seem to mention how easily it can backfire and if you don’t have a ton of plates lined up you can deal with your problems another way
[–]RedPilledRoaster-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Doubt it. Dread creates attraction. It doesn’t backfire if you’re high value.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Dread doesn’t create attraction. It only works in the first place if a girl is invested in you anyways, and even then dread game could backfire and she could simply hit up any of the numerous guys in her DMs.
Emotional manipulation has its time and place but using it wrong can easily backfire.
[–]RedPilledRoaster0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Tell me how it can backfire? If you’re out fucking chicks she’s the one without options, not you. If she goes and fucks another guy who cares? You have options. Abundance is the entire backing to this entire concept.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Because hot plates aren’t a dime a dozen and there’s no use breaking a plate for no reason
[–]RedPilledRoaster0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
They are if you’re high value.
[–]MuhTriggersGuise3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've found "being mad" at a woman makes her a victim, even if she's in the wrong. If asked if "I'm mad" when she's done something wrong, or rude, or offensive, I never say "yes". I say "no, but I think your behavior is unacceptable, and I'm really not interested in being around that kind of thing." I keep it about whether or not I'm ok with something, not feelings.
Being mad at her = you being mean, her being a victim of your meanness
[–]Gravel_Roads1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is excellent advice. It's about setting healthy boundaries, rather than trying to "punish" the other partner, which doesn't really solve the problem.
[–]2alpha-zach1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No. Just disappointed.
[–]Terdmuffin0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm not?
Yes
Did you do something to make me mad?
[–]redlittleboot0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont stress over this type of stuff lol, agree and amplify ie: YEEEEES or just ignore her.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Leave her read.
"Yeah, I fucking hate you."
First thing that popped into my mind and probably what would have actually said. If you treat girls like this from the start you'll be able to get away with replies like this.
[–]uglyfitguy2877jdjeow0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly
[–]semirelevantknt0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Complete lack of information dude but if I was to make a conclusion, you're a beta orbiter who became self aware and she's wondering where her source of validation went
[–]SeamusAwl0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
With a one word answer...
Truth
[–]RedPilledRoaster5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
The second you let her know she managed to piss you off she will lose respect for you.
Hold frame. Be a rock. Women are like children. Why would you let a child ruin your emotional state?
[–]SeamusAwl0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Being honest about that is not an issue. Here is how it works.
Her: Are you mad at me?
You: Yes
Then go back to doing what you were doing and not giving her any more of your attention. She will know that she crossed a line. If it was a line that resulted in nexting, you don't respond obviously. but if it is minor, she needs to know that what she did was wrong. It is exactly what I would do with my kids when they cross a line. I don't go batshit crazy and beat them to death. I let them know their behavior is unacceptable.
[–]1redhawkes-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
You don't let children to shatter your frame and control you. Amused Mastery.
[–]SeamusAwl-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
You have no idea what you are talking about.
[–]1redhawkes-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
I was ignoring this girl, not liking her social media all that, and got that text.
you're the one confused here.
she just want to bring him in to the orbit
[–]SeamusAwl-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
My comment was directed at you. Amused mastery to enforce a crossed boundary, especially with children, is a dumb shit answer.
Next. Read the fucking timestamps. And he never made the comment in this thread did he?
[–]1redhawkes-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
lmao my sides. Im not the topic of the post, OP is.
Read the top comment before you shit all over the place
[–]SeamusAwl-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You failed basic reading comprehension. Now i know.
[–]1redhawkes-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
you obviously know nothing based by your replies
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Avoiding telling the truth is a beta move. If you can’t even tell a random slut or your girlfriend how you feel you’re an emotionally retarded pussy.
Don’t keep it real all the time, but keep it real enough that people wont suspect when you do actually lie.
[–]coriollanvs-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This
[–]umnikos_bots1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That.
[–]SeamusAwl0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or the other
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