Y’all. Okay. Super cringeworthy post. You’ve been warned.

So I was dating this dude who is older than me (red flag number one I should’ve seen) and we talked for about a month before I went out there to spend a weekend with him (it’s a three and a half hour drive)

Well during our talking he would talk about how he was having to pick his daughter up from work at night and I was just thinking oh her car is in the shop or something. SHE DOESNT DRIVE. SHES 21. Then come to find out, NONE OF HIS THREE KIDS DRIVE. NONE OF THEM.

So like on my weekends off when I was there I would obviously go out and get groceries or whatever and he’d always be like “oh make sure you ask my daughter if she wants to go or needs to do anything” Like why am I playing step mom when we were JUST dating. Why?

So I was sick one week at his house. No sympathy. There was this other friend I was talking to that I knew from a previous job and, whether he was being honest or not is beyond me but he legit texted me “if you need anything let me know” and I told him it’s a five hour drive between us right now and he said he didn’t care he’d bring me whatever I needed. I told boyfriend dude that and he says “I wouldn’t even drive five hours for you.” Like. What?!

Then. He’s texting other girls and I saw him put one of the girls notifications on private to where it doesn’t show up on the main screen that they texted. Not shady at all, right?!

I’ll stop now to save myself. 😅

Lawd. Why does the universe keep sending me these men/how do I keep choosing them?!