Helping beta friend

chazthundergut · 2018-05-06T20:17:52+00:00

Lead by example.

How hot is your chick? How many plates are you spinning? How good is your game? How awesome is your lifestyle?

Let your actions speak to the value of your philosophy. If he is someone worth saving, he will see your success and come to you for advice. And that is when you start slipping him some red pills.

Until then, focus on yourself.

_the_shape_ · 2018-05-06T19:07:23+00:00

Agree & Amplify

"You're absolutely correct, but you do realize that, at some point, you're going to have to get yourself a private jet to take her on vacations and grow out a 13 1/2 inch dick to keep her, right?"

Let him learn the hard way that women have fangs too, and maybe after that he'll be receptive to whatever you seem to be dying to get off your chest and school him with.

tl;dr - stop trying to save blue pillers

purplefidgetmidget · 2018-05-06T20:39:09+00:00

He cannot be saved by you, sorry. No beta can. It is one of the core rules of TRP. Every time anyone tries it just backfires.

Your best chance is to buy him a copy of No More Mr Nice Guy and hope for the best.

They have to save themselves, and for that, they have to realise that there's something wrong. That more effort (as in, spending time/energy/resources on women) does not equal more pussy

nappy_poontang · 2018-05-06T19:31:40+00:00

I can tell you that every single time I tried to present the information here to a friend to help them become happier, it turned out negatively. Even after they saw the dramatic improvements in my life, they still rejected the truth and used that information to gain favor with the women “they have to buy purses for.”

I will never do it again.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-05-06T21:41:31+00:00

I really want to help him

You can't. You can be there for him when it all comes crashing down.

dulkemaru51 · 2018-05-06T22:33:19+00:00

game his girlfriend/sister/mom and when he asks "how could you?", you say "I can explain".

abdada · 2018-05-06T19:02:15+00:00

A man is judged by the company he keeps.

Instead of lifting up your beta/omega friends, they will drag you down to their level.

You can lead a horse to water, you can't force it to drink.

Start focusing 100% on your own life and ignore others around you until you are in a place you can help those who ask for help first.

its_meKnightSwolaire · 2018-05-06T19:22:52+00:00

Don’t even try.

lookoutitscaleb · 2018-05-06T23:43:48+00:00

Helping Blue-pilled friends is impossible until they come to you and ask for help.

02537-41101 · 2018-05-06T22:13:58+00:00

Lead by example

mushroom_overlord · 2018-05-07T05:40:50+00:00

If he's thinking this way, it may help to suggest "it's not just about money. It's about your value as a man." It's easy to point out situations where a hardworking man or attractive man, not a rich man, gets the girl.

Now of course we don't want your friend to turn full BB, just point out the obvious counterexamples to trying to be that guy that does everything just for one girl, in casual conversation without forcing it.

Example:

Beta incel: Waaaah girlz don't like boys girlz like cars and money

You: What about those frat boys and guys at bars who fuck girls all the time? Some of them are poor yet still get pussy right quick on Friday night. They must have something going for them right?

BI: sputters

You don't have to drop RP truth bombs, just point out that guys can be attractive in other ways. From here you can lead him to other truths.

juliusstreicher · 2018-05-09T09:07:23+00:00

When anybody pontificates about anything, such as your friend does, that means that they have placed themselves in the role of the teacher, not the student. They do not think that you can teach them anything.

Note that he didn't ask you...he told you.

Title	Helping beta friend
Author	Mostass
Upvotes	22
Comments	17
Date	May 6, 2018 6:58 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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