I see a lot of men [especially natural alphas, this is their main shortcoming] fall into the trap of placing restrictions on women [when these alphas are in relationship]. On the other hand I see a lot of betas who aren't in relationships reward women for bad behaviour.
A system which places more emphasises on rewarding, not one which restricts women, is better and allows you a greater control to maintain your frame and keep your dignity and respect.
Women, just like children, want to break 'rules' put in place to test your resolve. After all women aren't children so there's no point telling them what they can't and can do. Men will break rules because they want their freedom or make a point, women will do it to test your resolve. This is another inherent difference between men and women: men will do it for a good reason, women will do it for the heck of it and to shit test/challenge you frame. What you can do is not reward bad behaviour.
A few examples of what I'm talking about:
Do not marry a 'reformed slut' who has had her fun on the cock carousel and is now looking for the dream marriage and family that the media and society has promised her. Do not reward her that which she does not deserve. This is better than coming across as a bitter beta who complains that there's too many sluts and women shouldn't have sex and thus giving feminists more artillery to use against the common man. Just don't reward her.
Do not get into a relationship with a single mother and thus provide her with emotional and financial protection. On a wider level all Government benefits should be stopped for a woman who willingly becomes a single mother when the father makes it clear he will not be supporting her. There's far too many options for a woman to simply 'accidentally' become pregnant in today's day and age.
If you go on a date with a woman and she's more interested in her mobile phone than talking to you, abruptly end the date right there. Don't complain about it or call her out on it and come across as a whining bitch, just walk out.
If you're talking to a woman and she has a huge bitch shield, move on. Even if you do have the game to overcome the bitch shields just move and don't dance to her tune of gaming her further. Even if you get the bang she will have an inflated ego that she made a man dance so much for her.
These are a few examples but I think if established and used on a wider scale many women will change their attitude overnight. Men have far more power in the dating world than they realise, even the betas.
Obviously the opposite holds true, reward a woman who cherishes her femininity and embraces her feminine role with a man [this seems extremely weird to write out since 99.9% of Western women hate femininity and love to act masculinity which is a huge turn off].
Most of all you have to realise the most important aspect of game: FRAME. Every interaction with a woman, from co-worker level to a romantic level, is her testing your frame. Frame is the most important part of game. Game is 90% frame. Once you master how to maintain frame everything else falls into place. This is the hardest part of game since as a rookie it's very easy to get lost in a woman's looks and lose your frame.
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