My LTR of 11 months doesn't send me nudes, but her old folders are filled with them, back when she was with someone else.

I know that in reality it means that my value is not high enough, but here's some background:

  1. I never verbalized that I wanted them (I really don't, nudes are kind of meh to me)

  2. She didn't send me ONE provocative pic in the past, and later told me that my reaction didn't please her (I didn't shower her with compliments, nor I escalated too much, I was driving and texted back "pull out the handcuffs, I'll be there in 10minutes")

  3. She has told me she feels insecure around me, because I spend a lot of time in the gym and she doesn't, plus she sometimes believes that she doesn't turn me on all that much. (She met one of my exes in public some time ago and it turned in to a shitshow with her dropping lines like "wow I bet she looked good in spandex" for the rest of the evening")

So I'd like to know, if I still should look at this situation as a redflag, or is she really just feeling insecure.