Feminists are lonely and crave a boyfriend. They created this conflict not through their demands for equality which most support but from the accompanying male hate.

Sinisus · 2015-06-24T08:53:24+00:00

Rebecca Reid applauds her for exposing the isolation that hits so many women in Britain

Again, a predominantly male problem is hijacked by feminists. With the increased focused on female achievement, women still want partners with a higher social status. This leads to a growing group of men who never have children, while women "recycle" higher status males. (http://sciencenordic.com/quarter-norwegian-men-never-father-children)

Men feel more depressed and isolated than women if they do not have children, new research has found. Presented at the British Sociological Association's annual conference, the study also revealed males are almost as likely as their female counterparts to want a son or daughter of their own. (http://www.bps.org.uk/news/childless-men-feel-it-more-women)

Initially I was irked by Weisz’s confession. How could she say that she wasn’t a full and complete person before she was in a relationship? What message does that send to independent young women?

It sends the same message that has been sent to men since the beginning of time. "You're not a man until you have won the approval of a woman."

Finding a boyfriend cured my crippling loneliness, but left me feeling like a very bad feminist.

It is amazing that she doesn't see anything wrong with an ideology that promotes loneliness and depression by making women feel guilty about finding love and companionship through a male partner. It is somehow "below" strong, independent women to admit that man could add something meaningful to their life, making her search desperately for a "worthy" substitute and getting severely depressed in the process. It's really sad to watch.

Edit: Incorrect mention of "working class"

2015-06-24T11:39:47+00:00

White, who wryly refers to herself and an “authority on loneliness” found, just like Weisz and just like me, that the cure to her loneliness came from companionship.

wow, that's so deep

bertreapot · 2015-06-24T10:02:16+00:00

humans are social creatures. we're wired to be part of a group; we're also wired to pair up, that's where new humans come from.

women are misled if they feel they're betraying "feminism" by desiring human contact. nothing is more natural than relating and connecting to other people. it's a fallacy to think you can be independent of all human contact, and that independence makes you a strong human, or a "good" feminist.

this sentiment very much reminds me of my high school girlfriend and her friends. they really went overboard trying to prove that they were capable of being strong women, entirely independent of men. what they ended up doing was shitting on people who cared about them. it's your choice if you want to remain manless or not, however you're largely deceiving yourselves if you feel you'll achieve happiness by subscribing to a dogma that has no achievable end in sight.

ExpendableOne · 2015-06-24T13:40:19+00:00

Lets not pretend like those women weren't literally choosing to be alone. They had countless men at their disposal, plenty of which would have been open to egalitarian views or feminist views. They chose to ignore those men, because they felt like those men were bellow them. Narcissism and entitlement were their problem, not their circumstances.

Most women seem to see their own professional and personal successes as a way to justify finding a man of even greater status, rather than as an opportunity to have the freedom to pick whatever guy they want regardless of their personal income or accomplishments. There was nothing stopping them from finding a nurturing and supporting guy, to supplement their careers, but those are the type of men they would brand as "unfit" or as some sub-human level of invisible.

Unconfidence · 2015-06-24T13:11:26+00:00

I actually really like this article, and I think it does a good job at trying to mend some of the damage that has been inflicted on modern-day romance by these gender wars.

Wargame4life · 2015-06-24T10:08:33+00:00

lol true karma, if you go out of your way to declare how you "don't need no man" you get left to deal with the consequences.

men are somewhat lucky as they can become totally absorbed into a passion or hobby and things generally fall into place. i was just the other day watching "alone in the wilderness" about a guy who chose at 51 to live 35 years on his own in a cabin in alaska, and he was a pretty cool guy, i have yet to see any historical or present day feat where women choose to live in isolation or engage in really isolated lifestyles by choice at the same rate.

hence in a game of relationship chicken it seems women need men more than men need women, hence the market is adjusting, and you see less men becoming "committed" since a replacement is more easily sourced.

this is what happens when you price yourself out of the market, the more demanding and unreasonable you are the more likely you will be replaced and rejected, and women seem to be much less self critical then guys when it comes to realistic expectations etc.

2015-06-24T13:17:12+00:00

I never message women who are crazy enough to put feminism on their OK cupid profile.

Plus, women who are hard core feminists really do suck at making friends with men. I have female friends myself, three sisters and their friends. That's a pretty large sample I'm talking about.

It's not as simple as "feminism is the radical notion ..shit shit and shit".

It changes your perspective about men. Which is obvious from the way they ignore men's issues and mock " male tears". There's no surprise here.

the-tominator · 2015-06-24T09:43:59+00:00

I am convinced that the current set up of the genders with regards to jobs, education, relationships and society in general is not sustainable. If we carry along the current path society will collapse.

desmay · 2015-06-24T13:06:52+00:00

She is a bad feminist. Feminists don't have boyfriends. They just have pet chimps. Or cats.

mindless_gibberish · 2015-06-24T13:47:36+00:00

Welcome to the Human Race

Bananahelicopter · 2015-06-24T14:12:20+00:00

Looks like fish do need bicycles.

ConfirmedCynic · 2015-06-24T17:36:36+00:00

It seems to me they want to create a society in which all women have access to the top men, for purpose of producing children at least, and the vast majority of unwanted men toil away out of sight to support them.

EvidentlyTrue · 2015-06-24T23:29:45+00:00

I wonder how many feminists there will be in a few years time, men are starting to realize that they don't want anything to do with an ideology that despises dismisses and degrades them, and will avoid any feminists like the plague, I've already come to share this view with pretty much every man in my family and every male friend i have.

Two things are likely to happen in the future:

1) Women will notice how unhappy they are being alone and stop being feminists.

2) The next generation of girls will see all the lonely women in their 40's and 50's who are still harpening on about feminism and equality but are lonely and bitter as fuck, and will not touch feminism with a 10 yard stick.

Either way feminism is doomed, its an ideology that attempts to separate two genders and defy human nature itself, its had its run, and its certain to fail.

2015-06-28T15:48:28+00:00

Most men don't ask for much. They just want a woman who is okay looking, will fuck him once in a while and won't nag him constantly. Women, on the other hand, aren't satisfied this easily. They're always on the lookout for something better.

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