Wife wants a divorce, husband starts stepping up his game with other women all of a sudden his wife can't keep his hands off of him.

Satchmo84 · 2014-01-10T00:21:57+00:00

Go through with the divorce. Don't settle for being her backup plan after she laid out how she felt about you.

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ajswdf · 2014-01-10T00:03:27+00:00

This is priceless. We all know what's really going on here, so let's look at some commenters trying to explain it.

I caught her in a lie about a gift from a coworker. One of my theories is she was having an affair, she wanted to go through with a divorce so she could get together with him. Their relationship soon fizzled out, so she now is rethinking divorce.

This is 100% correct.

Yep, because an affair fizzling out can make her start lusting after you.

She told me before she didn’t have the hots for me now she can’t keep her hands off me?

This is a great question to ask her. Maybe she read a book or something

Hey honey, I used to think you were physically repulsive, but then I read this book and can't stop thinking about how horny you make me.

She realises other women want you and now wants you herself, or the charm you turned on for those other women that you didn't bother to turn on for her and your newfound excitement in life has made her want you.

It's beyond that, I want to know if her feelings towards me are genuine, if she truly cares for me, than I don't want to leave her.

But it's so hard to think her attraction towards me will change based on the opinions of other women.

So close, but yet so far...

johnnight · 2014-01-09T23:05:20+00:00

she’d say you know I don’t think I ever had the ‘hots’ for you, but you seemed like a loyal reliable guy. This cut me pretty deep, I am not the most handsome guy in the world, but I am fit, tall, decently muscular, so I was pretty blindsided when she said this.

Translation: "I needed to lock down a stable provider, you ugly person." On the other hand, tall, fit, muscular, should have evened this out.

Another thing is I am really confused about her attitude towards me and sex. She told me before she didn’t have the hots for me now she can’t keep her hands off me? Did she say it and then felt bad so she is trying to make up for it? But if that was the case why is our frequency of sex still so high? Does she have the hots for me now? If so what is the cause of that? I haven’t gotten physically any better lost weight or anything. I haven’t gotten a promotion, I have been happier but that’s it. But that is mainly towards other people my attitude towards her as probably gotten worse. I’d say I became more aloof, a bit more sarcastic and teasing,

You idiot, the explanation is right here:

I started becoming a more sociable guy. I knew that eventually I’d have to start dating all over again, so I decided to start laying down the ground work for after I was divorced. ... I was making more friends particularly female friends. ... Things were going pretty well in my social circle my new changes were getting me a lot of attention from the women there (they are all married). I overheard my wife talking to her good friend about my “new found swagger and charm.”

This gives me so much rage. The only reason ever why a woman can find you attractive is that you are getting attention from other women and she is seeing it. There's nothing inherent in your qualities, nothing to improve. It's the jealousy, that makes her love you. It's like, bitches will have a meeting and decided that large Dumbo ears are sexy this season and they will actually follow the consensus of the hivemind.

P.S. If I was this guy and I understood what was happening, I would pull through with the divorce and make my wife a plate in my harem. Fuck this, at this point there's no loyalty to hold on to. Mother of my children, you have downgraded your own status to slut.

30303030303030 · 2014-01-10T15:18:01+00:00

It's a textbook redpill stuff but that doesn't matter, we are misogynists and we know nothing about women :)

she’d say you know I don’t think I ever had the ‘hots’ for you, but you seemed like a loyal reliable guy

yep, cock carousel and marriage to beta provider not real

I caught her in a lie about a gift from a coworker. One of my theories is she was having an affair, she wanted to go through with a divorce so she could get together with him.

This is what he gets right. The other guy fucked her and show her the boot, or he was worse than hubby and grass is no longer greener.

2014-01-10T03:39:50+00:00

This thread should make the sidebar.

complete_asshole_ · 2014-01-10T03:57:18+00:00

Of course she can't keep his hands off him.

Title	Wife wants a divorce, husband starts stepping up his game with other women all of a sudden his wife can't keep his hands off of him.
Author	mistonag
Upvotes	71
Comments	46
Date	January 9, 2014 10:14 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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